TammiMcMan and
Janet2K,
Thanks so much for your informative replies. I have been reading these boards for long enough to know that you're both GF experts and I value your opinions and suggestions greatly.
I know that there is only a slim chance that both my in-laws room and our room would both have castle views. I really think that RPC wherever we're located will be fantastic. I've never stayed at the GF, but I have stayed at the Hotel Del Coronado, on which I think the resort is modeled, and it was truly a deluxe hotel stay that we will not soon forget. Combine that with being adjacent to WDW and I'm sure GF RPC will be pure fantasy
While connecting rooms would be nice, they're not absolutely necessary. I'll have to figure out some way to state my request so that it's not too much:
1st request: Both rooms non-smoking
2nd request: We'd like to be at least within 5 or 6 rooms apart on the same floor if posssible; connecting and/or adjacent would be great, but not critical.
3rd request: Castle view rooms would be fantastic if there's any

left after the first 2 requests.
I've chosen RPC because I'm most interested in the convenience to the monorail and the posh accomodations as we will most likely spend a lot of time in our rooms. At least I expect my in-laws will spend a good amount of time there. They're early risers. But they will be in bed each night by 8:30. All of our dinner reservations have to be no later than 5:30. DMIL ,DD(4), myself plan to do the Princess Tea Party one day, so I figure we'll wait and go to the parks (maybe AK??) after tea that day, so we'll have the whole morning to enjoy at GF as well.
And since we're only there for 4 nights (DH is a work-a-holic, and evidently in his mind only...work ceases to function when he's not there). That and DFIL can't stand to be away from the house and the dogs for more than that amount of time because evidently in his mind there's no way they'd still be around when he returned if he were gone for say 5 or 6 nights. Heck, maybe I should just take my 2 DDs, MIL and myself and leave the sticks in the mud at home

Okay, that didn't sound very Disney
DDs are 1 and 4 so ILs have said that they'll be glad to babysit at night if our little ones are too tired. Of course, we have to be home by ILs bedtime of 8:30; hence my true desire for a castle view so I can see wishes from our balcony
Anyone else ever have to subsidize their ILs vacation, just because you know they'd never go if they knew the actual price?

Really, my ILs could afford to travel anywhere whenever they wanted to, but they don't and I know I'm going to have to tell them it's like $100 a night for RPC or they'll (DFIL specifically) will never want to stay there. DH says it's worth the extra money we'll have to spend to make a memory for them and our girls.
My MIL will just adore the Victorian decorations. I know that this is a once-in-a-lifetime trip for my ILs. They never go anywhere so I really want this trip to be super, fun and as laid back as possible.
Oh well, I'm rambling. I love this thread and check it all the time to see if anyone has any pictures or suggestions that I need to jot down! Thanks everyone!!!