If we don't talk about the food, then the calories don't count when we are there right??? LOL
You will be treated wonderfully by your servers -- if you like Sweet & Low instead of NutraSweet, they remember. If your child likes a cherry in their coke, they remember. It is truly amazing and the service is awesome -- makes is difficult to go home where I am the server
Dinner usually takes about 2 hours. I've only had late seating though and there are usually younger children at first seating so maybe it doesn't take quite that long at the earlier seating.
The dining rooms are each themed differently and there is something special about each one. Remember if you don't see it on the menu, just ask. They bend over backwards to get you what you want. My mom loved the creme brulee from Tritons and really wanted it again the nest night at Animator's, so they brought it for her!!!
I was hesitant about table mates and how that would work but Disney has always placed us with people who either had children in the approximate age of ours and/or with people that had similar professions as ours. We have always found our tablemates to be easy to talk to.
Palo is not to miss if you can. It is a wonderful Adult Only dining room and my husband, my 18 DD and I had the most awesome "adult" dinner last year. We have great memories and pictures. I highly suggest the fruit pizza for dessert but everyone else loves the choc. souffle -- oops, I talked about food

calories for me
Have a wonderful cruise!