CinderelliT
Dreaming of Disney
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Awww.... thank you for sharing that. Our first baby was a similar situation. She was born at 38 weeks, 7 and a half pounds, died before birth with no explanation. It was devastating. It would be nice to have something to remember her by in our ceremony, I'll have to think about it.
We also feel very blessed to have our two children since. But still, it is a loss that will always stay with you. When we lost our daughter, my mother talked a long time about a baby my grandmother lost, and how it always stayed with her even, as a sister. It's something that's always with you- time does heal, but not completely, you know? When the time of her birth comes up every year, I still grieve.
But it really impacts the marriage- we got so much closer going through all of that. And part of this vow renewal is a celebration, of not just being together and our joy, and our living children, but of our strength, our pain, and all we've suffered together in life and held on through, the child we lost, and the other loved ones we've lost along the way. I imagine that is similar for you as well. It reminds you to celebrate the good things while you have them too...
Big hugs to you![]()
Thanks for all the hugs!! And right back at you



It is so hard to explain what I've been through to someone who has not suffered the same kind of loss. Many people don't understand. It is definitly one of those things that has defined who I am and has had a huge impact on our lives. And I still grieve all the time too. The hard part for me is that his birthday is right before Valentine's Day and my DH's b-day, so we struggle each year to make it through the month of Feb.
I am glad that you have been blessed with such beautiful children. It really does make you cherish everything more!
Kenzie had a pink pair that was shiny but not glittery. She got upset about growing out of those too! She is going to be super excited about these.lorelei had a pair of pink ones like that, but from wally hole. and of course they had the princesses on the inside of them. she loved them and was so upset when she grew out of them!
I guess being a southern pageant girl, there is no such thing as too much or over the top, tacky, or too sparkly. I am easily distracted by shiny objects!

Wow I just read through all of your pj. Let's see, I'm a year away, more now actually, and very excited and I want to do so many things, but dh is like nah, we've got time to talk about that stuff later. The cake is such a cute idea, and your dh did an amazing job on your dd cake.
Your shoes (all of them) are gorgeous. I can't believe you made that tiara, it's beautiful!!!! The ring in the slipper is so sweet, he did a good job there! Your wedding day looked so great! I'm thankful you are healing from the accident. Hugs about your grandma.
Big congrats on your Bachelors!
And you are so creative, I love the kissing balls, and the STD, and your invites, and everything. I can't wait to see what you come up with next!
THANKS!!! I am so glad you read it. I hope that you can get some ideas. I love stealing ideas off of the other Disney brides.
Plus we are pretty much healed up now!

My granmother is a tough old bird. She's hanging in there and being strong.
Thanks for following along.