For the love of Pete......I got an email from the ex. He and I both got her MP3/Ipods for Christmas. He got our DD and his younger DD both the same MP3 players so there would be no fighting. He took the Ipod that I got our DD and then gave her the one he got her. I have no clue what he was going to do with the one I had given to him.
He was trying not to hurt anyone's feelings.
Hellooooo he shoulda thought of that 13 years ago when he did what he did!!!(insert hairpulling smilie here)
So I made a deal with DD and sent an email stating the deal to the ex. She keeps the one that her dad got her at his house and she keeps the one that I got her here. That sounded like a good deal/solution to me. I told DD not to breathe a word of having two to her half sister. I told her that it would make the half sister mad.
He was trying not to hurt anyone's feelings.

So I made a deal with DD and sent an email stating the deal to the ex. She keeps the one that her dad got her at his house and she keeps the one that I got her here. That sounded like a good deal/solution to me. I told DD not to breathe a word of having two to her half sister. I told her that it would make the half sister mad.