He was just providing you with resistance. LOL
Well if that's not perfect for a scrolling tag than I don't know what is!!!
I've noticed this too. On some trip reports as well! Actually, there is one poster I've noticed recently that specifically has ONLY posted negative comments on the threads they've posted to. I mean, I don't know EVERY post they make but on the threads I've read where they've commented, they have only ever had something nasty to say. Not even just an opinion against what the OP first posted about but really just not nice.
Playing devil's advocate is one thing, being insulting is quite another.
I think it's tough. The internet does provide anonymity and people tend to really hide behind that and say things they might not say face-to-face. At the same time, however, I've seen posts totally misinterpreted because the wrong tone was implied.
Not only that but sometimes the nastiness ends up working both ways. It seems that sometimes people start threads thinking that everyone will sympathize with their situation and offer only empathy, agreement and/or support, but the fact of the matter is that there are A LOT of different people with A LOT of different opinions out there. When someone disagrees with everyone else, all those in agreement jump on their back and tell them how horrible they are. I'm of the opinion that hearing the argument to any given situation is healthy; it offers perspective. It doesn't mean that you HAVE to agree with it. I think if you want your opinions respected, you have to respect others.
That being said, I personally feel that there
are posters out there who solely post to rile people up. Whatever. I just ignore them. Why rise to it, ya know? If I ever see something that I feel is particularly out of line I report it to a Mod. That's it. The way I see it is I have enough stress in my life without getting upset about people on the internet being nasty. Not worth my time.
::thud:: K, off my soapbox.