I just found your planning journal and read the entire thing! Congratulations on your elopement, a Hawaiian wedding is just beyond amazing. That location was gorgeous! Have you told your mom yet? Me and DH were thinking of eloping but never got around to it, I sure wish he had surprised me with a trip to Hawaii like that.
I love everything you have done. Your shoes are amazing, and your dress is stunning. I think your hair length is just right and will look really pretty pulled to the side with a flower. Your theme is so cute. It makes me think of the artwork they have on the chocolate covered coconut treats they sell at Disney. With Minnie and Mickey in what looks to be Hawaii.
I'm so sorry about your DH's Grandma, I'm sending my hugs

and prayers your way. I just found out this week that my Aunt has terminal lung cancer and has less than a year to live. She was at our Disney wedding in December so it makes it all that much more special that she was able to attend.