You did not say the gender of your kids, but for that age there is lots in New Fantasyland for either gender. I would say this will likely be your primary focus in the park. If there is anything that you or DH want to ride that isn't good for the kids you can use rider swap, but keep in mind that if it is a long ride (say Splash) then you will be taking that time hit x 2 away from something else you could be doing. If you think you will be back, it might be better this trip to focus on rides the whole family can do for the most part.
PPs are right that you won't hit everything. That said ... there's a lot you can get done. I'll give a general strategy and then also a recommendation to sign up for a free account at touringplans.com -- that will allow you to make customized plans (I'm guessing the reason you're not going with a pre-made cheat sheet is that none of them seem to fit what you want). You don't have to follow the plan, but it will give you an idea of how much you'll be able to do and tell you if you're trying to cram in too much. With kids that age I would set the walking speed to "Very Relaxed", this will give you time to maneuver through the crowds, bathroom breaks, etc. Just a note, the banner for the paid account is big, and the link for the free account is tiny ... but it is there.
Your point about keeping the BOG lunch since it is actually a QS is a good one, especially since you can order in advance which should (hopefully) speed the process a bit.
All of the below is what I would do ... it may or may not reflect what you want to do ... but hopefully it may be helpful
A sizeable portion of the rope drop crowd is going to head straight for NFL, and I suspect you will not be done at CRT in time to get the drop on them. There are two options:
---- If you do plan on doing some big-line rides with rider-swap in Frontierland / Adventureland / Tomorrowland then now would be a good time to get them done as the waits should still be very short (and much of the crowd is in NFL).
---- If you don't plan on doing any rider-swap attractions, then the only rides outside of NFL that you would gain an advantage for with the early hour are Jungle Cruise, Buzz, and the Speedway. If your kids are interested in both Buzz and the Speedway, then I would head for Tomorrowland when you get done with breakfast and try to knock both of those off relatively quickly. If you only want to do one, I would stick with starting in NFL.
As far as a strategy for NFL; I would make FP+ starting at 10-ish. If you do end up in Tomorrowland this will probably put you back in NFL around 10:15 - 10:30 depending on what you do. In NFL, if you're not doing M&G I would get FP for Enchanted Tales with Belle, SDMT, and Peter Pan's Flight. I would get the SDMT one last (assuming that you get 10-11, 11-12, 12-1) as it's closest to BOG. I have no idea where the FP kiosks are, if everything times just right you can finish your SDMT and send someone to a kiosk to get a fourth FP, especially since you will probably use rider-swap with this so the adult who has already ridden can head to the kiosks with 2 y/o**. There are four attractions that would probably be the most desirable for you in terms of maximizing line-skipping (see below). Everything else should be do-able standby if you keep an eye on wait times. After lunch, I would wander away from NFL to do some of the no-line / low-line attractions elsewhere -- this might be a good time to head to Frontierland / Adventureland or to Tomorrowland if you didn't do it earlier. What you got for 4th FP may figure into this decision.
On Fourth FP+; the other attractions that fall in your kids age / range of interest where you could save quite a bit of time with FP+ are Winnie the Pooh, Buzz Lightyear, the Speedway, and Jungle Cruise. Of course, if you can't get those, even skipping a 15 minute line is still skipping a line. Remember that people report there is often more availability on the app than the kiosk; if you don't see something attractive at a kiosk take something anyway and try to change it.
** Unless your 2 yo is over 38 inches (which they might be if they'll actually be closer to 3 or you guys are tall) then you'll need to use RS for 7DMT. I may have seen reports that you only need one FP for both of you to ride using RS, but I'm kind of fuzzy on the details there. If so then you will need to make sure both "third fastpasses" are used up in order to book a fourth before lunch. Of course, that would also provide an opportunity earlier to do something (Space Mountain?) for which you would need to use Rider Swap.
I know everyone else is recommending to skip Boma, but honestly I would say this is up to you. I would only skip it if you think there is a really significant chance you will make it back to the parks. If you think it's likely that your kids will be "parked out" for the day, then I would take the lovely sit-down meal with amazing food, and have some relaxing time around it to go out to the animal viewing areas at AKL. Only you know your family, but for my family doing Boma and not going back to the parks would significantly increase the quality of our park time on subsequent days. If quantity of food / cost is an issue then you might consider sharing at lunch, b/c the food at Boma is well worth the trip.
