I am sorry you had that experience at GF. Did they give you an explanation of why they would not give your huband the massage, etc.? I was diagnosed with breast cancer a year ago and after surgery had radiation through April. We went to Disney and stayed at the CSR (as we usually do). I scheduled my massage at the spa at the CSR. They asked me if I had any recent illnesses, and I explained the cancer story, etc., and there were no issues (until the cancer is gone for five years I am not considered "cured."). I received my massage and had a most relaxing time.