People's perspective and attitude are what causes a bad trip.
My Mom is not in very good health and has multi infarct dementia. On most of our trips, there are some very trying and difficult moments. For example, once we were in MK, and she got mad at me about something and took her hat off and threw it on the ground.....twice. There have been times when she tries to stop the wheelchair and leave because she's mad. However, these moments are not what stands out in my mind about each trip. There are many positive, special moments also. I remember the good things, and the smiles on her face.
We were at BWV March 4-10 for my Birthday. We arrived Tuesday, March 4th. That night, we had to call the ambulance and take my Mom to Celebration Hospital. She was admitted with heart failure, renal failure, and high potassium. March 5th, was my birthday. I wasn't even sure she was going to survive. She pulled through and was released on Saturday from the hospital. We had part of the day Saturday, Sunday, and left for home Monday. We went to the parks, and my Mom really enjoyed herself. I saw her laugh and smile. I knew no matter what happened, that trip was worth it. In EPCOT, another guest tapped me on the shoulder and stated that seeing her smile and me assisting her was the best thing he saw all day. That was the day she was released from the hospital.
Life is really what you make it. I came back after the March trip, and even though she was in the hospital, with something very serious, I can't say it was a bad trip, because the little time we had, we enjoyed. I have definitely learned to appreciate the special and good moments, and forget the no so great moments. Nothing is ever perfect. Many people get too concerned and upset over things that in the big scheme just really aren't that big of a deal. BTW, during the March trip, I had light bulbs burned out in my room, and there was a leak in the ceiling above the shower!
I have to say that the entire staff at BWV was wonderful to both my Mother and I during our trip. They did everything possible to make things as easy as they could for me.