Last cruise we NEVER ate at Topsiders. Can someone tell me if this was a good or bad decision? What was I missing (or not missing?) I leave in 3 weeks...what should I do differently this time? For those of you who are wondering why...I have two small children and at buffets I am up and down, up and down getting things for them (forgot_____ you fill in the blank...ketchup, dressing, fork, drink etc.) and my meal is not at all relaxing. They also can't manage trays so we are back and forth getting everyone their food. I find when you have table service there is someone else to "fetch" thinks for you and my meals are much more relaxing and enjoyable. I can't wait to hear your input!