I certainly would skip them, with the exception of what you know will be good and want to do. Will you be on the dining plan? If not, look at the Swan/Dolphin offerings for good food and especially Blue Zoo for a more adult atmosphere (kids are there, of course but it caters to the adult crowd).
If OOP, you can also consider the lounges for lighter dinners and cocktails. That would be my preference because they don't require ADRs and scheduling isn't so tight. 2-3 TS meals for dinner or mix it up with TS for lunch breaks.
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DDP we've really enjoyed
Via Napoli - my favorite and my only must do
Sanaa or Yak & Yeti
50's Prime Time - the fried chicken and PB&J shake are tasty but we had a ball with our server, which made it memorable.
Sci-Fi - loved the ambiance and the films were funny, especially the commercials! OK food but a LONG wait to be seated, we waited about an hour after our ADR.
Raglan Rd - DH especially loved it, try to get a table to watch the stage
BOG- we loved our lunch. I think sandwiches NEED condiments, though, and realize that tastes differ. I notice that sometimes the bad reviews are because the individual ate them without any. I can imagine how dry they would be! Loved the castle and pre-ordering made it a breeze.
The Wave
Narcoossee's and time it to watch the fireworks
Boatwright's
Kona - only had breakfast but The Samoan was delicious. DH asks me to make the macadamia nut butter every so often-should probably do that. He had it on regular pancakes and loved it.
We don't go THAT frequently and haven't been to any of the new ones. The above are ones we'd dine at again. The only TS we aren't interested in doing again is 'Ohana. Crazy atmosphere and ridiculous amounts of food. Nothing memorable about the flavors, either.
Hoop-Dee-Doo sounds fun and more affordable with just two people. Classic Disney with bottomless adult beverages and a ride home!
Adult trips are so fun! I went with my mom and we had a blast. So carefree.