...and just a quick update to sum up what we know so far....
JT is a hottie per Jaded, a BOYTOY per Carrie, too young for Mel and Teresa, I have abstained from all comment because I am totally innocent of all wrong doing here.....

He is 26, has a job, lives in Chicago or the burbs of Chicago, he has no felonies on his record, he prefers women, although there was a question on that terminology...(as in I prefer fish but I will eat hot dogs.....ok peeps mind out of gutter here)?????

and he does not have tatts or piercings although the jury is still out on whether those things are turn ons or turn offs in the preferred gender....

His cell phone is not verizon, although he does text (unlike a certain lurker who will remain nameless) he loves to send one liner emails, he does drink, and he has never been to ACs.....and btw it just occurred to me there was yet annother question asked I think.....he prefers to not go clubbing...and there is more I oculd add but will not do so at this time....