ok...I need help guys. I accepted an eharmony date but realized this week that quite frankly I am not ready to date anyone and I am really not interested. Whenever I email this guy I get a response pretty quickly, at the most a couple of hours. We have never talked on the phone.
I was supposed to meet him tonight. I emailed him first thing this morning and explained what I said above and that I had to cancel our date (I left out the not interested part, I am not that heartless). I haven't heard back.
So now I don't know what to do. Do I show up at the place and turn him down there? i can't play dumb cause he'll see the email eventually if he hasn't already. Is he not responding thinking I will just show up if he doesn't see the cancellation? I really do not want to go...I am tired and it is all the way in the opposite direction of where I live. But I don't want to be a jerk either.