As a teacher, I have mixed views on this. I can totally sympathise with parents who would not be able to afford holidays if they had to go in term time. I know only too well the cost of having to go during the school holidays
BUT, what does annoy me are parents who:
* don't let us know in advance. If we know we can plan for it and make sure the kids have catch up work
* go on 3 or 4 holidays per year sending in a note to say their child was 'ill'. Do we seem that stupid!
* go just before major exams (even GCSE's!)
*go during exam times. SATs and GCSE's are at the same time every year. All parents need to do is ask the school, even 2 years in advance. With the aid of a calendar and knowledge of when the May bank holidays are, its easy to do. (One parent booked a holiday during the GCSE's and asked if their child could do it when they got back!!!???)
or, worst of all..
parents who go at at the beginning of the school year. Some kids take until Xmas to get over this! They miss out on the induction days, their timetable, the start of new topics in EVERY subject, base line testing e.g. reading tests CATs tests, seating plans etc . But, perhaps more importantly, they can be excluded from social groupings which have bonded in their absence. At the beginning of the year when they may be with a different group for many subjects this is particularly important and causes a lot of upset for the child.
The government have asked schools to crack down on parents who persist in taking kids out of school, especially those with an attndance rate of 85% or less. In these cases the advice to the head is to refuse permisssion and report parents to the Education Welfare Officer. Parents can be prosecuted for willfully keeping students away from school, even if it's only once! It hasn't happened in the past but new measures are being brought in which will not only allow but encourage it.