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I agree that sucks. I'll be keeping my fingers crossed that you'll be able to still go on your May cruises.

For some unknown reason, I have found most ortho specialist that are good at surgery have very poor people skills, I'm not sure why. Can you do alternating hot and cold compresses to get the swelling down? Let's hope Fran's appt. goes better next week.
 
Sorry that the appointment and doctor didn't go so well.

Hope that Fran does gets better.
 
:hug: I'm sorry today didn't lend itself to much help but I'm glad you're getting a new doctor. I'm super sorry also that you're having to cancel your cruise. :( It totally sucks.
 
Wow - just Wow !
This appointment did not go well.
Hope the next doctor and appointment will give you more help.
Good thoughts and prayers sent your way.
Do not forget to take care of yourself also.

Well I did have a small moment of "self indulgence" today. She wanted her computer in bed this morning, so after I fed the cats and made coffee. I actually made us an omelet Ala Embassy Suites or Beach Blanket Buffet. It had red onion, mushrooms, red pepper, ham, spinach, and chedear cheese. It turned out more like a scramble which was sad because my last 5-6 omelets have come out really good. In fact I've been able to that "buffet flip" and pull it off, but not today. It still tasted good though.

So at least I had a nice breakfast and then for dinner we had nice piece of baked cod with roasted asparagus, so at least I'm back to eating well and cooking for us. That's an important part of life. Now all I need is to plan the menu for a week in advance and life will be back to somewhat normal.

And then there is that whole thing about rebooking. The question now is F&W or Christmas....
 

If you have never been to WDW during Christmas season, I would go. I wanted to go back to WDW during the Christmas season but going during the Halloween/F&W is great as well.
 
I agree that sucks. I'll be keeping my fingers crossed that you'll be able to still go on your May cruises.

For some unknown reason, I have found most ortho specialist that are good at surgery have very poor people skills, I'm not sure why. Can you do alternating hot and cold compresses to get the swelling down? Let's hope Fran's appt. goes better next week.

At this point, I'm not sure that the compresses would penetrate the cast like thing they put on her. Well even the other Dr. who retired had a better bedside manner than this guy. Maybe he won us over back when her father started seeing him and he took us aside (when he broke a vertebrae in his back) and said, "you know he is his own worst enemy". :rotfl2: I think that alone is what made Fran want him to work on her! :lmao:

Yeah, let's hope this guy next week is better, we have been through a lot of the doctors in this group between her and her father and most of them have been top notch.

Sorry that the appointment and doctor didn't go so well.

Hope that Fran does gets better.

I sure hope so, because this is pretty much killing me!

:hug: I'm sorry today didn't lend itself to much help but I'm glad you're getting a new doctor. I'm super sorry also that you're having to cancel your cruise. :( It totally sucks.

Well, I guess it's money back in our pockets. I just could have used the relaxation, I really don't want to have to cancel the B2B, but if she can't bear weight on the leg, there is no way. Maybe we can add on a 2 day to the October one....
 
Hang in there and just keep reminding yourself this too shall pass and your life will get back to normal. Both of you need to take it one day at a time for a while.

Come here and vent all you want it's the least we can do for you.
 
Hang in there and just keep reminding yourself this too shall pass and your life will get back to normal. Both of you need to take it one day at a time for a while.

Come here and vent all you want it's the least we can do for you.

Weren't we saying this same thing about 2-3 years ago when she had the venus ulcers? Ugh. At least I have become a total expert at canceling trips.
 
Oh my gosh, poor Fran! And then the Doc hit her foot too?! :faint: :eek::eek:

Hopefully the appt goes well tomorrow! Prayers for both of you.

Well, if you read back, it didn't. :headache:

Wishing you tons of good luck today at the appointments! Please keep us posted. Text me if you're bored or want/need to chat in the waiting room. :grouphug:

Thanks.....you know the rest.

Glad you were able to rent a car for the next week, hopefully it will make traversing much easier.

Hope you and Fran are doing better today :hug:

It definitely has made things easier. Her feet didn't stick nearly as far out the window. :laughing:

Alison and Fran,
I am SO sorry this has happened. My thoughts and prayers are with you both. I am really anxious to hear what the Ortho Dr. says. Thanks so much for letting me know what was going on, I had no idea. Bless you.

Please keep us posted. I just wish I was close so I could help. I would be there in a second!!

:welcome: I'm glad you made it over here, even if it wasnt' the best of circumstances. As you can read, the Ortho Dr. today was a bust.

Goodness, this is not what I expected to find after being away for a few days. I am so sorry. :hug: I am thinking of you and Fran. I hope the appointment goes well and they can figure out something that will make Fran more mobile. I am still keeping my fingers crossed for this trip. On a positive note though, it is wonderful that 1st Street is nearly finished.

Corinna

Yeah, I'm sure this was not what you expected. I think she is going to get less mobile before more mobile. If she requires surgery, she will be six weeks off the leg, before she has six weeks on limited weight bearing. All this bodes not so well. I am gearing up for the worst.

I did check the 2 day cruise before the 5 day cruise and there is availability for the HA rooms, now to find out if we can keep the same room if we book....I may do that when I cancel the cruise tomorrow. And book the 2 day....
 
I am so sorry that the appointment did not go too well. I hope that the next appointment is more positive and that no surgery is required. Adding the two nights to the October cruises sounds like a plan. I hope that works out for you. The Holiday season at Walt Disney World is truly magical. If you have not experienced this before, I would suggest that you consider this for the rebooked trip.

Corinna
 
Ugh, the story gets worse. I'm so sorry :( Boo on that young doctor and making you feel like he didn't know what he was doing.

I hope you don't have to cancel your B2B cruises.


Is Jim going to still go and be with his grandchildren?
 
Hi,

Have been a bit MIA on the boards recently so only just catching up. Sorry to see about Frans fall, hope she has a speedy recovery. Remember to look after yourself too. Sending positive thoughts and pixiedust: your way!!
 
Here's the part where this Doctor totally fell short. I know that her foot was very swollen, but he totally passed the buck. He referred her to another doctor in the Group who specializes in Feet, told her to take her diaretics, elevate the foot and come back in a week, to see if she needs surgery. She got the idea that he was fat-phobic, he could have also been one of those "you're threatening my view of marriage" people, or he could have been an awkward doctor with no patient skills, who really didn't know what was going on with her. Clearly he had no interest in treating her and that's where we were not happy. However, he was also really young. It's weird now that I'm becoming older and young doctors make me wary. I'm glad we have been referred to someone else cause I didn't get a good vibe from him anyways.

I know I'm coming in cold to this and you don't know me at all, but I stepped off the last step of my basement stairs (25? 30?) years ago and broke my lower leg (both bones, actually) and, since I lived alone, had to drag myself back upstairs and through the house to get to a phone. I, too, ended up waiting a week for the swelling to go down before they could see well enough what needed to be done. (Ultimately, I needed surgery as all that moving around had twisted the bone ends such that they were entangled in ... something. I dunno.) I'm not saying that you were wrong in getting a poor vibe from him, only that it's probably not uncommon to need to wait a while for the swelling to go down enough that they can 'see', in an x-ray, well enough to know what they need to do. Also, I think they like to give your system a chance to recover from the shock of whatever happened before they take you into surgery, if that is indeed what ends up being needed. (Hopefully not!) Good luck and good vibes to both of you!
 
Oh my gosh i'm so sorry for both of you. I'm sorry that this happened to Fran and i'm sorry that all of your trips are falling apart. It sounds like 2010 (or was it 2011?) all over again with the rescheduling.

Not gonna lie, as bad as it sounds, young doctors make me wary as well. I pretty much insisted on an 'older' doctor for DS when I was researching.

I hope you'll figure out something to do with those VWL points.

And here's to a speedy recovery for Fran:goodvibes:goodvibes:goodvibes:hug:
 
Though I've read all your trip reports, I'm a new poster (one of those new 2D people). I just found this thread and was reading through all excited for you before hitting the spot where it sort of imploded. Just want to send you best wishes for Fran's recovery and your sanity as you rearrange everything and keep life afloat. Hope things move forward quickly in a positive direction. Standing by for following along on your future "fun" plans.

--Karilynn
 
Just arrived home and had to check this thread.
Fran is very fortunate to have you as a partner. You are so caring and so organized.
All will work out fine when you reorganize things for the trips, but yes it is a bummer !
The F&W is a good time for WDW. We will be in WDW November 5-11. My son, daughter and her husband signed up for the
half marathon that weekend. If you are there at that time it would be great to meet the both of you.

Rose
 
OK, so I'm popping in again and will reply to everyone that I've missed when I get a chance, but I wanted to let you know what happened today at the Ortho doctor. When we called this group, I wanted to make an appointment with the doctor who did her hip and knee surgeries. Unfortunately he retired at the end of 2014. So they set us up with his "replacement". Who was no replacement. The old Doctor had years and years of experience and really knew his stuff. This guy and his physician assistant were not all that.

First off, they actually showed me where on the X-rays the fractures had occurred. That was helpful at least for me to know. The ankle fracture is in that bone on the outside of your ankle where the little "bump" is located. The other fracture is at the top of the fibula which is just below the knee. This happens when a leg twists. There are two bones in the leg, the tibia and the fibula. The tibia is the large bone, often called the shin, the fibula is the smaller bone in back which balances the tibia. Think about the part of a chicken wing that doesn't look like a mini leg, and you'll know what I'm talking about (why are all my references to food?). The fracture is completely cadicorner to the ankle fracture which makes perfect sense if you're twisting the leg during the fall.

Here's the part where this Doctor totally fell short. I know that her foot was very swollen, but he totally passed the buck. He referred her to another doctor in the Group who specializes in Feet, told her to take her diaretics, elevate the foot and come back in a week, to see if she needs surgery. She got the idea that he was fat-phobic, he could have also been one of those "you're threatening my view of marriage" people, or he could have been an awkward doctor with no patient skills, who really didn't know what was going on with her. Clearly he had no interest in treating her and that's where we were not happy. However, he was also really young. It's weird now that I'm becoming older and young doctors make me wary. I'm glad we have been referred to someone else cause I didn't get a good vibe from him anyways.

They wrapped up her foot in another "splint" similar to what the ER did, but they did a much better job of it. So now she is in bed with her foot up and we're trying to get the swelling to go down. I'm calling tomorrow to cancel the Dream Cruise, and we have to work out what to do with the VWL points. The thing is if she has to have surgery (which the next doctor next week determines), then the B2B cruise on the Wonder is also in jeapordy. This sucks.


:hug:

So sorry to read this. I know you were really looking forward to being able to travel with Fran this year.

I'm glad that you're going with a different doctor. That youngling doctor sounds like an inexperienced twit.
 
If you have never been to WDW during Christmas season, I would go. I wanted to go back to WDW during the Christmas season but going during the Halloween/F&W is great as well.

We'll just have to see what is available when we decide to reschedule. So much is up in the air right now. I hate that! I like to have everything figured out!


Good luck with your rebooking tomorrow.

Thanks, I didn't get to it, maybe tomorrow, but I have a full day. Hopefully I can wake up early and get out of bed. Getting out of bed hs been hard for me lately.


I am so sorry that the appointment did not go too well. I hope that the next appointment is more positive and that no surgery is required. Adding the two nights to the October cruises sounds like a plan. I hope that works out for you. The Holiday season at Walt Disney World is truly magical. If you have not experienced this before, I would suggest that you consider this for the rebooked trip.


I am really thinking about the holiday season, although I would love to go back for F&W as well! I hope that we can get a B2B stateroom for the October cruise as I am thinking more and more that the May cruise won't happen either.


Ugh, the story gets worse. I'm so sorry :( Boo on that young doctor and making you feel like he didn't know what he was doing.
I hope you don't have to cancel your B2B cruises.


Is Jim going to still go and be with his grandchildren?


That's one of the plans. He is procrastinating and I'm thinking of asking him for his DiL's phone number so that I can call her and work out the details!

I hope we don't have to cancel the B2B, but healing time is 6 weeks all around with or without surgery and we're already within that time frame. I can't see her on a ship trying to stand up with me holding her by a belt and keeping weight on only one leg.


Have been a bit MIA on the boards recently so only just catching up. Sorry to see about Frans fall, hope she has a speedy recovery. Remember to look after yourself too. Sending positive thoughts and pixiedust: your way!!


:welcome: I guess you're in time for the PTR for the Fall /Christmas TR! Unfortunately I don't think she is in for a speedy recovery, but we can wish for the best!


I know I'm coming in cold to this and you don't know me at all, but I stepped off the last step of my basement stairs (25? 30?) years ago and broke my lower leg (both bones, actually) and, since I lived alone, had to drag myself back upstairs and through the house to get to a phone. I, too, ended up waiting a week for the swelling to go down before they could see well enough what needed to be done. (Ultimately, I needed surgery as all that moving around had twisted the bone ends such that they were entangled in ... something. I dunno.) I'm not saying that you were wrong in getting a poor vibe from him, only that it's probably not uncommon to need to wait a while for the swelling to go down enough that they can 'see', in an x-ray, well enough to know what they need to do. Also, I think they like to give your system a chance to recover from the shock of whatever happened before they take you into surgery, if that is indeed what ends up being needed. (Hopefully not!) Good luck and good vibes to both of you!

:welcome: and thanks for your insight! Fran has grown up in our "community" and is quick to cite homophobia in people that discount her, she also is quick to chalk people up to fat-o-phobia. I am less likely to jump to these conclusions as many people are so involved in their own worlds that they can only be chalked up as idiots or "twits" as PIO pointed out. Either way, I'm glad we are seeing another doctor and hopefully the swelling will have gone done by the time we see the new Dr. Unfortunately when she fell her whole body was swelled up and she was already taking the diaretics, but I think that was because she ate something that caused her to swell up. I'm not going to tattle on her here.


Oh my gosh i'm so sorry for both of you. I'm sorry that this happened to Fran and i'm sorry that all of your trips are falling apart. It sounds like 2010 (or was it 2011?) all over again with the rescheduling.
Not gonna lie, as bad as it sounds, young doctors make me wary as well. I pretty much insisted on an 'older' doctor for DS when I was researching.

I hope you'll figure out something to do with those VWL points.

And here's to a speedy recovery for Fran:goodvibes:goodvibes:goodvibes:hug:


I know, I'm totally having deja vu of 2011 & 2012 right now. 2010 was when you and I could have walked past each other at Epcot and not known it. I'm sort of hoping we can work out something with Jim's family for the points. I'd take a portion of the money we could get on David's, if I knew that someone I cared about was using the room, and enjoying it vs the crap shoot I'd take for renting the holding points on Davids. He just doesn't get the uber planner that I am and still hasn't contacted his family!

Though I've read all your trip reports, I'm a new poster (one of those new 2D people). I just found this thread and was reading through all excited for you before hitting the spot where it sort of imploded. Just want to send you best wishes for Fran's recovery and your sanity as you rearrange everything and keep life afloat. Hope things move forward quickly in a positive direction. Standing by for following along on your future "fun" plans.
--Karilynn


:welcome: and thanks! I'm glad you have enjoyed my previous TRs and that you have come out of lurkdom. We will rebuild! I will make plans, and then this will be a real PTR before it becomes a TR!

Just arrived home and had to check this thread.
Fran is very fortunate to have you as a partner. You are so caring and so organized.
All will work out fine when you reorganize things for the trips, but yes it is a bummer !
The F&W is a good time for WDW. We will be in WDW November 5-11. My son, daughter and her husband signed up for the
half marathon that weekend. If you are there at that time it would be great to meet the both of you.


That's very nice of you to say, but I'm sure we won't be going that weekend. I was wondering why everything was booked up, and the marathon is why. I will be looking at other times. Someday, I would love to meet up with you!


So sorry to read this. I know you were really looking forward to being able to travel with Fran this year.

I'm glad that you're going with a different doctor. That youngling doctor sounds like an inexperienced twit.


Well the travel will just be different. Until one of us dies, we don't have to stop planning. Yeah that guy was a total twit!
 
Hmmm....
The quoting and stuff on that last post worked out kinda funky. Sorry folks....I'm too tired to correct it....
 















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