Odd you say that. Our kids and friends had a surprise party for us on our 40th anniversary. Now, I know lots and lots of folks have vow renewals and that is it very meaningful to them, but.....well, part of the surprise was our minister was there and they planned a vow renewal for us. We had NEVER talked about this between the two of us (Dennis and I), but when they told us about the plan we both looked at each other and grimmaced. We both had exactly the same reaction and thoughts.....neither of us ever broke our vows (any of them - I even continue to honor

) and we are certain they don't expire so why would we need to renew them....they are not old or stale???

So, the minister read our reaction, took us aside and told us that our children want to share this since they were not able to be there at the wedding. Oh, ok....we did our best to seem sincere and not ruin it for them.

But to us, the first vows took just fine.
as Noel would say....just my thoughts. I know we are just plain weird!