Rob and Scott's Big Fat Gay Disney Wedding-TR Pg 92; Photo Update pg 133

[wallyb]

Oh. And here's a picture of Nick Adams

Pity to throw a hoodie over that.

Maybe JUST a hoodie?

 

[rpmdfw]

Okay, and getting us BACK on track, here's the first of the readings we've chosen for the ceremony:

Let’s Grow Old Together
By Denise Braxton Brown & Peggy Wrightsman

Let's grow old together... beginning with today.
Let's work slowly with each other and build a relationship that we can both enjoy being a part of.
Let's share love and understand that neither of us is perfect; we are both subject to human frailties.
Let's hold each other close and whisper through the night--pledging our love, honoring our commitment.
Let's encourage each other to pursue our dreams, even when we're weary from trying.
Let's expect the best that we both have to give and still love when we fall short of our expectations.
Let's be friends and respect each other's individual personality and give one another room to grow.
Let's be candid with each other and point out strengths and weaknesses.
Let's understand each other's personal philosophy, even if we don't agree.
Let's lie awake long into the night sharing our innermost secrets.
Let's be friends as well as lovers.
Let's laugh at time and plan with each other and wonder how we ever got along without this love we've found.
Let's never take for granted these moments that we've shared, but always be reminded of how intensely we have learned to live, how completely we have learned to love.
Let's grow old together...
and look back on life and smile.


I really like the fact that it's written by two women.

 

[rpmdfw]

And the second reading:

Love or To My Friend
By Roy Croft

I love you,
Not only for what you are,
But for what I am
When I am with you.

I love you,
Not only for what
You have made of yourself,
But for what
You are making of me.

I love you
For the part of me
That you bring out;
I love you
For putting your hand
Into my heaped-up heart
And passing over
All the foolish, weak things
That you can't help
Dimly seeing there,
And for drawing out
Into the light
All the beautiful belongings
That no one else had looked
Quite far enough to find.

I love you because you
Are helping me to make
Of the lumber of my life
Not a tavern
But a temple;
Out of the works
Of my every day
Not a reproach
But a song.

I love you
Because you have done
More than any creed
Could have done
To make me good,
And more than any fate
To make me happy.

You have done it
Without a touch,
Without a word,
Without a sign.
You have done it
By being yourself.

 

[jamieandben]

I say they should just do it au naturel.

 

[wallyb]

Okay, and getting us BACK on track, here's the first of the readings we've chosen for the ceremony:

Let’s Grow Old Together
By Denise Braxton Brown & Peggy Wrightsman

Let's grow old together... beginning with today.
Let's work slowly with each other and build a relationship that we can both enjoy being a part of.
Let's share love and understand that neither of us is perfect; we are both subject to human frailties.
Let's hold each other close and whisper through the night--pledging our love, honoring our commitment.
Let's encourage each other to pursue our dreams, even when we're weary from trying.
Let's expect the best that we both have to give and still love when we fall short of our expectations.
Let's be friends and respect each other's individual personality and give one another room to grow.
Let's be candid with each other and point out strengths and weaknesses.
Let's understand each other's personal philosophy, even if we don't agree.
Let's lie awake long into the night sharing our innermost secrets.
Let's be friends as well as lovers.
Let's laugh at time and plan with each other and wonder how we ever got along without this love we've found.
Let's never take for granted these moments that we've shared, but always be reminded of how intensely we have learned to live, how completely we have learned to love.
Let's grow old together...
and look back on life and smile.


I really like the fact that it's written by two women.

Can we add one line?-
Let's put rubber sheets on the bed douse ourselves in butterscotch and ...
Oh never mind - I'm going to get in trouble again - dang!
And now I'm hungry on top of it.

 

[rosiep]

Rob..the readings are beautiful, and if you hold true all of those things your relationship will grow and prosper. I have been married for 25 years and I am still..no...more in love with my husband than the day we wed. Remembering that we are human and that humans are fallible has really helped keep things in prospective.

Now..as for all this talk about hoodied men....ooooh bring it on!

 

[rpmdfw]

Can we add one line?-
Let's put rubber sheets on the bed douse ourselves in butterscotch and ...
Oh never mind - I'm going to get in trouble again - dang!

You're bored today, aren't you?

 

[rosiep]

You're bored today, aren't you?

Me too...work is slooooooooooooooow.
Let's start some trouble!

 

[wallyb]

You're bored today, aren't you?

I'm sorry - do you find rubber bedding boring-
I think Martha Stewart just came out with a lovely set.
Perhaps a a wedding gift?

 

[jamieandben]

Me too...work is slooooooooooooooow.
Let's start some trouble!

I'm with rosiep.

 

[rpmdfw]

I'm with rosiep.

Head on over to the virtual shower and grab some drinks and snacks then . . .

 

[wallyb]

I'm with rosiep.

This may well be your last words.

 

[rosiep]

This may well be your last words.

Hardie Har Har..
We'll just leave you out of it....

Come along Jamie...

 

[rosiep]

Head on over to the virtual shower and grab some drinks and snacks then . . .

Is that party still going on??? No wonder I'm seeing double!

 

[jamieandben]

Hardie Har Har..
We'll just leave you out of it....

Come along Jamie...

I'm with ya rosie
Looks like someone (wally) is wimping out... Dad must have gotten out the belt.

 

[rosiep]

Meet you over at the party...I'll just dress down a bit..I've got waaaay too many clothes on for a party!

And OT: Anyone know who the Sweet Potato Queen is and her rules for a party???

 

[wallyb]

I'm with ya rosie
Looks like someone (wally) is wimping out... Dad must have gotten out the belt.

The belt.
The paddle.
The handcuffs.
The ...
See... there I go ... again.

I'm just saying play with flames you might get burned.
Notice the color of her hair - red.

Now me - I'm a blonde - Pure, innocent, golden, blonde.

 

[rosiep]

The belt.
The paddle.
The handcuffs.
The ...
See... there I go ... again.

I'm just saying play with flames you might get burned.
Notice the color of her hair - red.

Now me - I'm a blonde - Pure, innocent, golden, blonde.

I'm not bad...I'm just drawn that way...

 

[jamieandben]

The belt.
The paddle.
The handcuffs.
The ...
See... there I go ... again.

I'm just saying play with flames you might get burned.
Notice the color of her hair - red.

Now me - I'm a blonde - Pure, innocent, golden, blonde.

Not!!!

 

[PghLybrt]

Wow!!!! I have to work for the holiday weekend and look at what I come back to! The invitations are fantastic, I love the idea of walking down together and the different shades of blue, Fantastic (I hate matching ). I am still voting no on the chicken dance…..


? Do they provide a photographer?