Perhaps? Monsters Inc currently has a 10 min standby wait and is never really all that busy. If you have a problem then tell the CM once you come back, especially if you tell them on the way in that you might have a problem on the way in. It’s not like people are cutting the line there on a regular basis like the more popular rides. But if your spouse really can’t reliably be in a 10-20 min queue then I don’t know what to say. Waits of longer than that are common all over Disney and have nothing to do with
DAS.