I'm in NYC too. Some of the revolvong doors are old & HEAVY! So yes, I get irritated when people don't do their part of the work.
But what really drives me mad is AFTER they walk through the revolving door, they just stop in their tracks right beyond the door! HELLO! The door is still moving! I'm coming through & have no where to go with them in the way. It's dangerous as the door is still revolving & I don't want to get hit with it because I can't move forward.

I've learned to have "Keep moving!" on my lips in case someone ahead of me stops.
I remember this thread. The OP was very articulate in describing this peeve to us. I thought, "Like the way we tell kids, Just use your words. Simply say, 'Please pass me the bar.'" That would have solved her whole problem.
MY peeve is when walking down the sidewalk & people spread them selves across & take up the whole sidewalk & you can't walk by them from behind.

It's hard to say "Excuse me," when there's so little space, without sounding rude, trying to get by because you walk faster. Sometimes I wish I had a big measuring tape & could measure across them and say, "You're taking up FIVE feet of space across for the TWO of you on a six foot wide sidewalk! Move over & share the sidewalk others to pass!" I wish there were dotted line lanes on the sidewalks for those of us who want to pass.