We did Lilo's clubhouse in November and our son loved it! When we showed up, they had a special hand washing station for the kiddos to use. Then inside they have an area to watch movies, princess and pirate pretend play areas, tables with markers for coloring, video games with their own tvs and then they have guided activities and characters scheduled to show up. On our night it was Captain Hook. They also will have you pick out your kiddos meal and snacks when you drop them off.
Our son had some bathroom issues so they did call us to pick him up early at around 10:00. There were several children there still going strong so they definitely weren't pawning him off. When we showed up they had a little baggie with a Mickey bendy straw, some stickers, toy dubloons and a toy spyglass (birthday party favor type stuff).
We called about a week ahead of time to schedule our night. It was awesome for date night! We dropped him off, walked over to TTC, and hopped the monorail to EPCOT for dinner. We were going to head to MK for some rides when we got the call that he needed picked up. I felt super guilty leaving him "behind" on a family vacation - but he totally did not care at all!! I would book it again in the future.