We've been to all of the BW restaurants. Spoodles is excellent and so is Flying Fish(pricier). Spoodles has more of a variety. I'm a picky eater and there is always something I like at both restaurants. We also enjoy an evening at ESPN, my DH and DS love the wings.
Cape May Clam Bake at the Beach Club is a good seafood buffet with many selections for non seafood lovers. Lots of salads and desserts, too.
Beaches and Cream at the Beach Club is a great place for burgers, and Ice cream. I love the vanilla coke.
We were not big fans of Big River but will try it again in April.