BernardandMissBianca
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Oh it was a quarter of ups and downs. DS8 is improving, DS9 is over the moon (HONORS!! Well if we had honors in the lower grades) and DS13 is PO'ed at himself.

I had a meeting with the principal for DS8 about his future at Blink Elementary. It was a rough day but I won't bore you with the details.
Anyway, thanks to his grandmother he started at a private school last week and it seems to be going well so far. There are only 16 kids in the 6th grade and they want to be there and want to learn, like he does, so he should fit in better. There are other kids there with Asperger's too, even though it's not a school aimed at kids who have Autism. He's a good kid and I really want to see him succeed at this school.DS8 went from an F in Spelling to a B-!!!!!!!
Lisa, he went up in everything but math and science!! I'm so proud of him and so ticked at his teacher. We had a huge HUGE argument before Vacation and it didn't end well. (DH yelled at her, and you know how he is when he gets mad!)
But I think I was exactly the same way with DD's case manager yesterday. 
Hopefully DS13 will be challenged by stronger teachers when he goes to high school. DS8 stopped caring when his second grade teacher told him on front of the class that he was not going on to third (this was in early Dec.) I went off on her in a big way.
She was one that would target one child every year and it made her mad that she didn't get a reaction from DS8. The other kids would hit, kick, puke, etc. DS built a wall.
Oh, that must have been UUGGGGGGGGGGLy!But I think I was exactly the same way with DD's case manager yesterday.
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Lisa I am here if you need an advocate --- and a case manager that doesnt know what they are doing? I am shocked~~~and they get paid the big bucks
Buffy --- so glad that over all the kids did well --- DS will come around I am sure
Jennifer
Sadly we only have 1 teacher for each grade so I can't switch. So, we may still switch schools at least for 4th grade (sister if the current teacher)I can' completely understand how your son feels. My second grade teacher was the same way. She put me in the lowest reading group and told my mom I was not a good student and would never call on me when I raised my hand. I did get moved out of her class, but the damage was already done. It took me to when I went back to college for my BSN at 30something to realize that I can be a good student and graduated with a 3.97 GPA.
My mom wasn't the most supportive when I was in school and that was a big problem.
As long as you are supportive he will be ok. I needed the reassurance and if you give that to him it will go a long way.
Good luck
Cindy
Way to go, Blink Boys!!
I hate that so many of y'all have to deal with teachers, counselors, case managers who don't do their jobs! It makes those of us that really care and really try look bad!! Move down here--I promise to take care of them!!