5 years-it seems like just last year. As a parent and school bus
driver, I see daily the bullying and abuse children heap upon
each other. It is up to us, the adults, to stop these acts of
verbal and physical abuse whenever we see them occuring.
I do not allow bullying in any form on my bus nor in my house.
DS's school has an anti-bullying program complete with on going
education. All schools should have one. I see young men abusing
each other, boys manhandling girls, girls threatening and verbally
abusing each other, older kids bullying younger ones, disabled
children being labled and laughed at almost every day. It is
abhorrent!!! After you hug your child today, sit down and have
a talk with them about bullying. Tell them what all the forms are,
tell them to ask for help if it happens to them. Tell them it's not
ok to suffer in silence and it IS ok to tell on a bully. Tell them you
will defend their right to be bully free no matter what it takes and
that you will not tolerate their being a bully. Teach them how to
mentor, explain empathy and compassion to them. Tell them it is
ok for their peers to be different. Tell them to discourage their
friends from bullying. Children who are trapped into depression
and darkness from being treated like Dylan and Erik were treated
often feel they have no way out. They are not stupid, they are
young and society has taken away their ability to defend themselves but made it easy for them to get a weapon. And
by all means-see Bowling For Columbine.