Presents for 11 y/o girl from Angel Tree

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My family has adopted an 11 year old little girl from the Angel Tree, who only requested school supplies and books. I have gotten her a backpack and 4 books (Little Women, The Secret Garden, Anne of Green Gables, and The Nutcracker),. However, I'm at a loss as what else to get her. Money is tight, but I love bargain shopping! :thumbsup2 All ideas are welcome and appreciated. I was thinking some lip gloss and perfume/body spray maybe? What "toys" do 11 year olds like? TIA!!
 
My family has adopted an 11 year old little girl from the Angel Tree, who only requested school supplies and books. I have gotten her a backpack and 4 books (Little Women, The Secret Garden, Anne of Green Gables, and The Nutcracker),. However, I'm at a loss as what else to get her. Money is tight, but I love bargain shopping! :thumbsup2 All ideas are welcome and appreciated. I was thinking some lip gloss and perfume/body spray maybe? What "toys" do 11 year olds like? TIA!!

I think lip gloss is always good-Marshall's has these really cute sets of nail polish and lip glass for $4 and $5 that are nice for gifts. B & BW is also good- the hand sanitizers with the cute little cases are nice for girls that age. Maybe a cute purse? DD 10 loves books- right now she's really into the American Girl mysteries. Good luck! :goodvibes
 
My family has adopted an 11 year old little girl from the Angel Tree, who only requested school supplies and books. I have gotten her a backpack and 4 books (Little Women, The Secret Garden, Anne of Green Gables, and The Nutcracker),. However, I'm at a loss as what else to get her. Money is tight, but I love bargain shopping! :thumbsup2 All ideas are welcome and appreciated. I was thinking some lip gloss and perfume/body spray maybe? What "toys" do 11 year olds like? TIA!!

My DD is almost 11. Some things she would like that could be relatively inexpensive...

pocket folders
notebooks - both larger spirals for school and note pads
sketch pad
journal
fun pencils (to be sharpened or, mechanical or pop-lead)
markers
different color highlighters
crafts (see $1 rack at Michaels/AC Moore, etc)
chapstick
body spray
lotion
shower gel
nail polish
nail care set
fuzzy/slipper socks
funky regular socks
gloves/mittens
scarf
mini wallet/coin purse
deck of cards (w/ fun pictures/colors)
 
My daughter is that age and likes anything from Claire's or Justice. They have pretty good clearance sales sometimes.
 

My daughter loves binder clips of all things. She loves getting those boxes of clips, push pins, paper clips ect.

Fuzzy socks are also always a hit here.
 
Stationary or novelty cards and notepads, a craft kit or craft supplies, and maybe some cute containers to hold all the little things might be good.
 
Bop-It games, board games, those little erasers that are in the shape of things (food, animals), novelty socks, cute fuzzy slippers, cute pillows for her bedroom, maybe a blanket with peace signs, hearts, or something tweenish on it.......
 
Thanks so much everyone! These are all great ideas! I think I'll make her a stocking of the smaller items... My friend and I were talking about what to get her, and we just can't remember what it's like to be 11! :lmao:
 
I would just like to suggest that since she is asking for such basic necessities, try to stick to buying her things she could use in her daily life. If she is in a situation to need school supplies, she might not even have a room to decorate, or the space for games.

I would agree with the posters who suggested the different school supplies, fuzzy socks (everyone needs warm feet), chapstick, personal care items like bodywash, etc..
 
Lip gloss, hand sanitizer from either Bath and Bodyworks or Justice, little erasers that looks like bakery items, bath gel, bath spray etc.

If you know someone who shops at Justice they have 40% coupons now that would be going to their email. You could have them print one since they can be used over and over.

Also - gloves, scarves, ear muffs etc.
 
As someone who teaches Angel Tree recipients, I would like to give a a few pointers. I work in an urban school-- and helped oversee a toy drive in another urban school a few years ago.

The "dirty" secret is that in some organizations, there isn't a 11 year old girl, it is just an idea that a pre teen girl may come along eventually througout the year.

If it is an actual recipient, please please please do not send anything expensive. Some of the "parents" get the packages and start selling off the contents right there and then for drugs/other "favors". Some of the kids never saw any of it-- it was sold out from under them. That was one of more disenheartening things I have ever seen. It made me cry.

Now as speaking as a urban school reading teacher: As for the books, it is a lovely idea, but the reading level may not be there. Most of my students are about 3-4 reading levels behind. For example, my 8th graders are reading at about 4th-5th grade. The books while lovely stories, may not resonate with the youth. Urban youth *at least my students* like read urban based books. They can't grasp stories about far away time and places because they live in the "here and now". Fantasy, historical fiction and imagery based books are very difficult for them.

Please do give socks and gloves. Most of my kids walk to school so they need warm feet and hands. School supplies are limited so it is definetely needed. Please put highlighters in the backpack. I never have enough highlighters for my students. Please nothing too flashy.. it will get stolen by other kids. My kids do love Justin Beiber-- so a Justin Beiber folder is a hot commodity! Mechanical pencils are not that pracical because once the lead goes out, it is difficult to find replacements. Some hand held sharpeners would also be useful, because my classroom ones are broken. Staplers/staples and even fun push pins would be nice as well. Binder clips are also used. Please don't forget notebook paper and a few binders . Some construction paper and markers would also be useful for school projects.

Personal care items would be helpful and needed-- hand sanitizer, body lotion, chap stick (plain/cherry flavored), deoderant--even baby powder. No shampoo-- you don't know the type of hair so that may not work.

Don't go with games.. they don't have room for that. Some of my studnets live in shelters and sometimes cars. :(
 
As someone who teaches Angel Tree recipients, I would like to give a a few pointers. I work in an urban school-- and helped oversee a toy drive in another urban school a few years ago.

The "dirty" secret is that in some organizations, there isn't a 11 year old girl, it is just an idea that a pre teen girl may come along eventually througout the year.

If it is an actual recipient, please please please do not send anything expensive. Some of the "parents" get the packages and start selling off the contents right there and then for drugs/other "favors". Some of the kids never saw any of it-- it was sold out from under them. That was one of more disenheartening things I have ever seen. It made me cry.

Now as speaking as a urban school reading teacher: As for the books, it is a lovely idea, but the reading level may not be there. Most of my students are about 3-4 reading levels behind. For example, my 8th graders are reading at about 4th-5th grade. The books while lovely stories, may not resonate with the youth. Urban youth *at least my students* like read urban based books. They can't grasp stories about far away time and places because they live in the "here and now". Fantasy, historical fiction and imagery based books are very difficult for them.

Please do give socks and gloves. Most of my kids walk to school so they need warm feet and hands. School supplies are limited so it is definetely needed. Please put highlighters in the backpack. I never have enough highlighters for my students. Please nothing too flashy.. it will get stolen by other kids. My kids do love Justin Beiber-- so a Justin Beiber folder is a hot commodity! Mechanical pencils are not that pracical because once the lead goes out, it is difficult to find replacements. Some hand held sharpeners would also be useful, because my classroom ones are broken. Staplers/staples and even fun push pins would be nice as well. Binder clips are also used. Please don't forget notebook paper and a few binders . Some construction paper and markers would also be useful for school projects.

Personal care items would be helpful and needed-- hand sanitizer, body lotion, chap stick (plain/cherry flavored), deoderant--even baby powder. No shampoo-- you don't know the type of hair so that may not work.

Don't go with games.. they don't have room for that. Some of my studnets live in shelters and sometimes cars. :(

Wow. I knew this was all true, but seeing it all written out here makes me so sad. Thanks for the advice on how to help.

For what it's worth, I'm not opposed to the "dirty secret." I would hate for a child to get left out because he/she didn't show up in the organization until after the recipient list was made.
 
Thanks so much for the input. We live in a pretty rural area, and I picked a local girl. I'm wondering now though, if it's even a child, or if I'm giving presents to a "potential" person. Either way, I'll be sure to stick to personal items and necessities. I think I'm going to go with (in addition to the clothing listed) fuzzy socks, chapstick, body wash and spray, teen deodorant, a fuzzy blanket, etc... all items that could go to anyone, yet hopefully truly is going to an 11 year old girl I am buying for ...
 
Wow. I knew this was all true, but seeing it all written out here makes me so sad. Thanks for the advice on how to help.

For what it's worth, I'm not opposed to the "dirty secret." I would hate for a child to get left out because he/she didn't show up in the organization until after the recipient list was made.

I agree, I knew this too... I specifically picked this little girl because she wasn't asking for wii games or ipods (nothing wrong with kids wanting that stuff btw) but because she was asking for such basic necessities... now I'm pretty sure she probably doesn't exist. Oh well, hopefully someone will be happy with the presents!
 
I agree, I knew this too... I specifically picked this little girl because she wasn't asking for wii games or ipods (nothing wrong with kids wanting that stuff btw) but because she was asking for such basic necessities... now I'm pretty sure she probably doesn't exist. Oh well, hopefully someone will be happy with the presents!

The toy drive in my other school were actual kids. In September we would sit down with the kids and make a list. I know I encouraged the kids to write more practical things but some of the kids would still insist on PSP's, WII games and the like.

Some of my students are so transient, they don't make the "lists" on the organizations. If you are homeless, you don't have an address or phone to be "registered" on a list. They show up at an agency and the agency gives the items to them on an as needed basis.

Don't be discouraged. You are doing a good thing, no matter what. If you stick to practical items, they will be used.
 
The toy drive in my other school were actual kids. In September we would sit down with the kids and make a list. I know I encouraged the kids to write more practical things but some of the kids would still insist on PSP's, WII games and the like.

Some of my students are so transient, they don't make the "lists" on the organizations. If you are homeless, you don't have an address or phone to be "registered" on a list. They show up at an agency and the agency gives the items to them on an as needed basis.

Don't be discouraged. You are doing a good thing, no matter what. If you stick to practical items, they will be used.
Thanks!! :goodvibes and Thank you for being a teacher! I have friends who are teachers and I know the difficulties you can have!!
 
As a middle school teacher (in an urban area) I always add both socks and underwear (the angel tree we use has sizes). I used to teach PE, and had several girls that would never dress out even though we provided the shirts and shorts. I finally got to the bottom of the story and found our that they were too embarrassed for the other girls to see their underclothes that were old and holey. It was easier to fail PE than to be embarrassed while changing. There were lots of kids who had stories that broke my heart every day! So fun stuff.... but maybe practical stuff too!
 
As a middle school teacher (in an urban area) I always add both socks and underwear (the angel tree we use has sizes). I used to teach PE, and had several girls that would never dress out even though we provided the shirts and shorts. I finally got to the bottom of the story and found our that they were too embarrassed for the other girls to see their underclothes that were old and holey. It was easier to fail PE than to be embarrassed while changing. There were lots of kids who had stories that broke my heart every day! So fun stuff.... but maybe practical stuff too!

This may sound ignorant, but if she's a size 1 in junior pants, are the underwear that size too??
 
I love shopping for ANgel tree every year and I have my daughters help. We always pick one child their age and sex and another child that is older usually( like 11-16). At our school it is actual students or their siblings. I know the coordinator and have actually seen children wearing things I am pretty sure we bought. My girls, 6 and 9, like shopping for this more than anything else > they even pick out one of the angels and use their own money. Michael's, TJ Maxx and Ross are your best freinds for this. I usually get candy flavored lip glosses, body lotions etc. as stocking type stuffers. Love the idea of baby powder deoderant. Never thought of that. I also usually get a treat, like tin of christmas cookies, mints etc. I have also gotten fuzzy blankets, colorful fuzzy scarfs with matching gloves etc. My daughter loves the diaries that have a lock and key or password. Justice has some on clearance. There is a danger of a parent selling anything expensive, so avoid that. Ask at a cheap bookstore about a series currently popular with girls around age 10 or so. I can;t believe some ask for a WII or playstation. I waited 3 years to buy that for my own kids. I leave those angels on the tree. We have bought bikes and skateboards before as well as footballs etc. for boys. Anything to encourage reading or sports. Also re: school supplies. My daughter loves what I call a trapper keeper( bigbinder holder with pockets you could put all the stuff and folders in. Walmart has hot pinks ones for under $10.00. Hope this thread encourages others to think about Angel Tree. We go to a rural very low income school and it breaks my heart to see kids come in in flip flops and tank tops in Feb. because they don't have clothes/shoes. When my friends and I see this we usually ask the teacher or parent coordinator( we have one because we are a Title one low income school considered at risk) if we can anonymously put together a package of necessities. Have fun shopping.
 












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