Planning Weddings for those Not-yet Engaged!

[MainStMandy]

Hey girls!! SO bored at work today. I have stuff to do but can't concentrate. And I have a TON of training materials to write, but have to wait cause stuff keeps changing

So I thought we could talk about weddings again I don't think dbf is proposing this Christmas...he keeps talking about it being a "while"...I think he's just trying to throw me off All he talks about is us getting married and having kids!

Anyway, I found this! I love it

 

[Shyvioletisme]

Anyway, I found this! I love it

ooh gorgeous dress!! love all the detailing at the top and just the poof at the bottom! Really pretty!

 

[ImMarcik]

That dress is gorgeous. I love the color!!!

I'm back to giving up on men for a while LOL. I have had the worst luck in the last couple of weeks. But, last night one of my friends told me she wants to hook me up with someone. I told her I had to see a pic first. So, who knows.

 

[MainStMandy]

That dress is gorgeous. I love the color!!!

I'm back to giving up on men for a while LOL. I have had the worst luck in the last couple of weeks. But, last night one of my friends told me she wants to hook me up with someone. I told her I had to see a pic first. So, who knows.

What about online dating? Dbf and I met online

 

[ImMarcik]

What about online dating? Dbf and I met online

The last 3 guys I went out with I met online and they were all disasters.

 

[ScorpioJeni]

Hello. May I join in the "trapping" fun?

DBF and I have been dating off & on for about 2 years and its finally starting to get serious. We're going slow since we each have children.

 

[MainStMandy]

Hello. May I join in the "trapping" fun?

DBF and I have been dating off & on for about 2 years and its finally starting to get serious. We're going slow since we each have children.

You can definitely join, but there is not "trapping" here. We are just here to talk about weddings even though we aren't engaged.

 

[ScorpioJeni]

Thanks. I was jk about the trapping. I think it would be nice to have a small informal wedding the next time around. My first was completly planned and paid for by my DM and I didn't get much say beyond colors.

 

[MainStMandy]

Thanks. I was jk about the trapping. I think it would be nice to have a small informal wedding the next time around. My first was completly planned and paid for by my DM and I didn't get much say beyond colors.

I'm on the same page as you! My first wedding wasn't what I really wanted. The only problem is the more dbf and I talk about getting married and weddings I realize he wants something a bit bigger

 

[ScorpioJeni]

I'm on the same page as you! My first wedding wasn't what I really wanted. The only problem is the more dbf and I talk about getting married and weddings I realize he wants something a bit bigger

So does mine, I think he wants a very formal military wedding so he can wear his dress blues. I'm looking more towards bare foot on the beach and he wants to be armed.

 

[ImMarcik]

My wedding was mostly planned by my DM too. She wouldn't even let me have my first choice in shoes.

 

[jordansmomma]

So does mine, I think he wants a very formal military wedding so he can wear his dress blues. I'm looking more towards bare foot on the beach and he wants to be armed.

Thats what i am talking about.
Barefoot on the beach in Maui at sunset with close friends and family...
a luau that night and then a small party when we get home!!!!!

 

[ScorpioJeni]

My wedding was mostly planned by my DM too. She wouldn't even let me have my first choice in shoes.

Are we long lost sisters? I picked out my shoes but when the order came in they were completly different because my DM thought the clear plastic shoes would look better under my floor length wedding gown.

Thats what i am talking about.
Barefoot on the beach in Maui at sunset with close friends and family...
a luau that night and then a small party when we get home!!!!!

Yup thats what I want, cept a little closer to home, like Sanibel Island.

 

[ImMarcik]

Are we long lost sisters? I picked out my shoes but when the order came in they were completly different because my DM thought the clear plastic shoes would look better under my floor length wedding gown.

Yup thats what I want, cept a little closer to home, like Sanibel Island.

My cake too was different. i picked it out, and didn't see it before the ceremony. When I went to the reception I found a different cake.

 

[ScorpioJeni]

There were so many little things wrong with my first wedding that I should have known the marriage wouldn't last. My cake split in half before we could cut it, my Ddad drank too much and sang Garth Brook's "Friends in Low Places" on the Stage, the photographer runied the film from the reception. Maybe eloping would be a better idea, no fuss.

 

[ImMarcik]

I'm with ya. I really have no desire to get married in my hometown, moreless state ever again.

 

[Caribbeanprincess]

Hey girls!
I was at Borders today buying reading material for the plane ride on Friday and I gave in and bought The Knot! XD
I have fallen in love with a dress in here, but I can't find it on the internet...

 

[MainStMandy]

While I would prefer to get married at Disney, dbf and I do agree on an outdoor wedding. He has said not too big, 70-80 people. If it were up to me it would be our parents, siblings and maybe one or 2 friends.

Oh and guess what? My mom thinks I am pregnant

 

[ImMarcik]

While I would prefer to get married at Disney, dbf and I do agree on an outdoor wedding. He has said not too big, 70-80 people. If it were up to me it would be our parents, siblings and maybe one or 2 friends.

Oh and guess what? My mom thinks I am pregnant

Why does your Mom think your pregnant? Do ya have a glow?

 

[MainStMandy]

Why does your Mom think your pregnant? Do ya have a glow?

No...I have been sneezing. Non stop for over a week. Like 10-30 times in a row and I can't breathe.

We have looked everywhere for something I am allergic to in their house (it's been since I moved in).

She said when she was pregnant with me she was super sensative to everything and it made her like I am now.