Hey! 43 years ago I was the baby with a teen mom.....thank goodness Grandma said what was done was done, and that family takes care of family- or I might have turned out VERY different, or not turned out at all! I had the love of my mother, the love of my birth father, and the love of my dear grandparents- if you think of it, I got twice the love.
Babies don't choose their circumstances- they just come into the world looking for people to love and care for them. Looks like there are at least three very good people waiting to love this one- and how can a little one go wrong with you guys! And just think- this little guy or girl could be the new CEO of Disney who will make all things right again!!! As my dear grandmother always says, babies are God's way of telling us the world should go on.
Congratulations on becoming a grandparent- and congratulations to your DD for becoming a mom! Pixie dust and prayers for a safe (and quick) delivery.