Thanks for a great finish! I always enjoy seeing things through someone else's eyes.
The fiasco with the pillowcases made my blood boil for you. I'm so sorry you had to deal with that.
I agree that three nights is simply too short - which is why our next trip is a 7 night

We tried to sneak in a 5 night double dip in January, but the prices skyrocketed. We'll slum it at the Boardwalk instead
I'm impressed that both the kiddos went snorkling, and that your son did the 5K! I may have to use that as inspiration for mine this next trip - they're a bit like Momma on vacation - just want to relax - but it's always good to do something different!
I think it's interesting, your comparison of vacation dollars at the park v on the cruise. I agree that there's more bang (more days) for the buck at the parks, as there are a million and one ways to economize at the parks, and not so much on the cruise. But, I really see them as two totally different vacations. The parks aren't a vacation, per se, but an adventure - while fun, is exhausting and can leave you needing three days to recover. The cruise, however, is a true vacation - forcing you to slow down, enjoy, and relax. There's a time and place for both - for my family, anyway.
Good luck on your continued planning - DL is on our list for sometime in the next few years. DH and I have been, but never the kids.
Thanks again for the report!