Last time we went, our children were 3 and 5. They were scared of almost every ride.
They are now 12 and 10. We are going in 2 weeks. We are having a lot of fun talking about their memories of last time. And they love hearing the stories about the rides they refused to go on (dd-almost everything except Winnie the Pooh and Teacups, ds at 3 was a bit more adventurous). They can't wait to try out those rides they were scared of. Dd at 12 has already put some off the list. No TOT and no SM. Ds is ready to do it all!!
I think when they were young, it was more fun watching things like Crush, Aladin, the parade and the fireworks.