I did something bad, I bid on a dress and now am praying someone out bids me. I've been looking for a dress for a wedding coming up and have lost out several times. I found the same dress from the same seller and just bid. Now I went back and see its not the same as this one is new with tags but has a MAJOR snag in the fabric. Is there any way to take my bid off prior to the end of the auction? If I win I will pay, I'm not going to retract. The seller did nothing wrong, it was my fault.