OMG. I just screwed up big time.

[K-Shong99]

So.
My best friend in the whole wide world's grandpa died last night.
But she was in Washington D.C. at a conference thingy.
I figured that her parents called and told her, but they didn't.
My grandma told me about it.
So...
I called today to tell her I was sorry for her loss and I asked when the visitation was so I could come and give her a big hug.
One problem...
She didn't know he had died yet.
I was horrified.
She was really close to her grandpa.
He lived in walking distance from her house.
She was so confused.
She had no clue what I was talking about.
Come to find out, her parents didn't want to tell her until she got home so they didn't ruin her trip.
I feel sooooooo horrible.
She isn't mad at me by no means.
I mean, we're besties for life.
But I'm still crying.
Should I feel bad about this?
I just need to let this out.

 

[inlalaland]

You shouldn't feel bad. You didn't know. It'll be fine.

 

[3mtn-kate]

I don't think you should feel too bad. I mean obviously it's upsetting to be told that someone you really really loved died, no matter who tells you.

And if your friend isn't mad at you then I think everything will be ok.
Hug her a lot though just to be sure!!

 

[acesupercoolme]

No, she would have found out anyways.

 

[rock.my.socks]

dont feel bad at all, you didnt know, it wasnt your fault. as long as you stay friends everything will be okay. as someone said before give lots of hugs

 

[TinkerTracy]

No you shouldn't feel bad.
I'm sorry that happened to you though.
I'm sorry for your friend's loss as well.

 

[Cinderelli16]

No you shouldn't feel bad. You didn't know, and you were just trying to be a good friend, so don't worry about.

 

[Tinkerbell424]

No you shouldn't feel bad, you were just trying to be a good friend and did not know.
I'm really sorry.

 

[STOPxmickeytime]

Wow, I'm sorry that happened to you, that sounds like an awful situation.

And of course you shouldn't feel bad, you were trying to be a good friend and comfort her.

 

[Babyjustrun]

You didn't do anything wrong, how were you supposed to know that she didn't?

But honestly, I would feel awful too if I were in your situation.
But try not to. If you need to cry, cry. Don't hold your feelings in.

I'm very sorry.

 

[XxCuriosityxX<3]

You didn't know, its fine.
And she was going to find out one way or the other.
I'm sorry for you friend's loss.

 

[Disney.Ears]

You didn't do anything wrong, at least someone she cared about told her anyway.

Sorry for her loss. Give big hugs!

 

[emdaaawg]

oh wow. I'd feel so bad =/ Just give lots of hugs and be there for her when she needs you =P

 

[Princess_Dot]

Awww don't feel bad. You were just looking out for yoru best friend. Since she isn't mad at you, they you should not be upset.

 

[HannahBanana]

You shouldnt feel bad. You know it wasnt your fault! Just give Hugs