Ok girls..The Bachelor(Jake)question..do you agree??

[DSNYGRL_JKS2006]

Ok girls who are fans of The Bachelor(Jake)...

I've been watching the Season so far and I have one question from this past episode....

Were any of you shocked when he sent Ella home?!!?

Heres why-
is it just me BUT wasn't it Jake's idea(or probably the "show") to bring out her son to Seaworld? to me that is a HUGE HUGE step to meet someones child esp. being a single Mom..she sacraficed a small time out there to be no the Bachelor in return to a possibly lasting forever love only to be sent home?!

What I thought was wrong was first off she is soooo cute and sweet etc. but unfortunately just watching her she never seemed to fit Jake even when they went on the date to Seaworld etc. So what I want to know is if Jake wasn't 99% sure he was going to narrow her down to even the final 2 girls.. why would you involve her son!? That is to me a HUGE slap in the face because that poor kid now will be asking about this man he hung out w/ Mommy at Seaworld.. its just ashame.. because bringing a kid into it when you are not even 100% sure that is your future wife.. only to knock her off the show 2 episodes later.. thats weird!!

Also is it just me or the show is keeping Viena(spelling)she is AWFUL! she is 23 and a BRAT! she is younger then me and she is completely insane! Did you see how he "burned" one of his roses lol

Also then you got that chick Rozlyn(spelling) who was messing around w/ a "staffer"... lol what a season..

but anyones thoughts

 

[dansyr2514]

I thought Ella was the perfect one for him!

 

[marcyinPA]

I agree with you about the whole Seaworld thing. I was shocked when he sent Ella home. She seems so mature, sweet, and ready to settle down. Personally, I think the thought of being an instant father freaked him out.

I find Jake to be really boring. He's good looking, and has a great job, but beyond that, he's got nothing. I think that's why he's been single this long. It takes more than looks and money to keep a relationship going!

 

[DisTeach1]

Sorry, I disagree, I didn't like Ella, and thought she 'sunk her ship" when she talked about how much she was looking for someone to "love" her son too. Please, if you really had your son's best interests at heart, you wouldn't have gone on a TV show....I knew from the beginning he wouldn't pick her...She has a 7 year old son, way too much for him in my opinion. He's young, and should start with someone who doesn't have that kind of history.

I couldn't stand her...If I had a son and was a single Mom, I wouldn't go on a show looking for a husband. Whatever, I was glad too see her go.

Having said that, I think my favorite, Alli, needs to stop talking trash, or she's going to sink her own ship.

 

[lillygator]

not a shock at all. Jake didn't feel it with her, nor do I think he wanted the baggage.

 

[emer95]

Sorry, I disagree, I didn't like Ella, and thought she 'sunk her ship" when she talked about how much she was looking for someone to "love" her son too. Please, if you really had your son's best interests at heart, you wouldn't have gone on a TV show....I knew from the beginning he wouldn't pick her...She has a 7 year old son, way too much for him in my opinion. He's young, and should start with someone who doesn't have that kind of history.

I couldn't stand her...If I had a son and was a single Mom, I wouldn't go on a show looking for a husband. Whatever, I was glad too see her go.

Having said that, I think my favorite, Alli, needs to stop talking trash, or she's going to sink her own ship.

I totally agree with every word!

No mother should ever be on the Bachelor. I was horrified when they brought out her son.

And yep, Alli is cooking her own goose! My predictions are that Gia and Tenley will be the final two.

 

[DSNYGRL_JKS2006]

Yeah exactly my point-bringing her son out was completely wrong.

I do agree with you guys when you say that Ella should be not finding love or a husband/father on the " bachelor" but instead you know the normal way we all do back at home peacefully lol

Don't get me wrong she was nice etc but yeah not a good match for Jake..

As someone else said Jake seems boring... LOL he sure does.. he seems I don't know.. lost.. I think thats the word I'm looking for.. haha

As for Alli omg she won't shut up LOL!

I LOVE Tenley she is my FAVORITE ! I feel soo bad for what she has gone through .. shes been married and divorced and shes my age 24.. I think out of everyone if Jake wants an honest,nice girl who would be very loyal and loving .. then shes it..

other then that.. yeah the whole thing w/ her son.. completely WRONG esp. to do when he was un-sure of his feelings.. and its weid.. one moment hes saying "im falling for her hard.. im falling in love w/ her" next thing you know hes like "i dont see you as my wife" lol

ahh reality shows

 

[dislaney]

Unless they have a senior bachelor, (which I don't think is going to happen anytime soon), no mother should be leaving her children at home to go on the Bachelor. I don't think he really wanted the instafamily either. I used to really like Ali but I think she is going to go soon if she doesn't stop trashing Vienna. I'm not sure who he will end up with and I'm not sure any of the girls left really seem like a good fit for him.

 

[Stacerita]

I thought Ella was sweet. But, he wasn't feeling her, so why drag it out longer.

I don't like Tenley. She seems ultra fake to me. And Ali is not a nice person.

 

[TheDisneyGirl02]

My thought about Jake meeting Ella's son was that the show probably set up the date and just told him that her son was going to be there. Who knows though!

I really like Ali, but I don't like how she's talking about Vienna...even if Vienna is crazy! LOL!

 

[auntiegem]

My guess is the producers set that specific date up, not Jake. I'm probably being way too cynical, but I think they control most of that show, short of making his final decision for him!

 

[terri01p]

 

[Lassie Lynne]

I admit, I have not watched the show this season..but.....

didn't they do the same thing on the last batchelor?? Jason (was that his name?) went out with one woman, he invited her little girl and they went to Legoland (I think) and it was the little girl's birthday.

 

[DeluxePrincess]

I'm sure Ella had to sign off and give permission for her son to be on the show. She only has herself to blame if her son is now confused by the Sea World date. All of those dates are arranged by ABC. Jake has 0% to do with the planning. As for him sending her home, he wants someone younger and naive with no baggage.