We went to the party last night and had a great time. However, we do agree that the crowds in Frontierland after the 8:15pm parade were kind of scary. We got our spot about 35 minutes before the parade (front row). People were crowding us prior to the parade, but we stood our ground and kept our spot. I wanted to get a drink, but I dared not leave because I knew my husband wouldn't be able to keep my spot without a lot of trouble. After the parade was just nasty. We literally could not take a single step for a few minutes. Then, we were able to start walking towards Liberty Square, but it was slow going with no breathing room. One woman literally pushed my husband (who is quite tall) out of her way. I was gobsmacked, but told my husband to let it go. Once we got to Haunted Mansion, the crowds subsided, but wow!! It was ROUGH.
We just don't like to do the second parade, because that last hour of the night is so great for characters, rides and trick or treating. I don't want to give that hour up to the parade. But after this year, we may reconsider for next year....