wow! I'm really encouraged by your reports of what you were able to accomplish at a sold-out party! We have 2 boys who will be 11 and almost 7 on our trip, and neither of them care about meeting characters - the only one I can see us waiting for at
MNSSHP is Jack Sparrow. Seeing the shows and parade/fireworks would be great, and the boys will prob want to get some candy, but our #1 priority will be rides.
We check in to AKL on sat., Oct. 29, and leave on Sat, Nov. 5 - we also picked that week because we didn't want to deal with MK closing early a bunch of days and I was not sold on shelling out $375 for us to go to the MNSSHP. I read some real horror stories on here from people who said they couldn't even MOVE at the party and couldn't do ANYTHING, which just sounds horrible for that kind of money. HOWEVER, right now we have a day off from the parks during our trip because we only have 5-day hoppers, and going to the party would get us extra time at MK, plus we could still relax in the morning...pretty sweet that they let you in at 4, so....now we are thinking about it.
But obviously our only options would be Sun the 30 or Mon the 31..or I guess our arrival day the 29? Or if they do a Nov 1 party... I sure hope they release dates before I have to make ADRs...