My DS19 exists due to ocular migraines! LOL
It's true! 20 years ago I was on the pill and had my first ocular migraine. It scared the heck out of me, and my GYN told me to stop taking the pill immediately. He also sent me for various tests, including an MRI of the brain.
Anyway, once I found out that I hadn't had a stroke or anything due to taking the birth control pill, my DH and I decided that I wouldn't go back on it, and just see whether I became pregnant or not. I had previously gone through 4+ years of infertility, and even though my older DS was 2 at the time, I didn't know whether I'd ever conceive again.
5 months after my first ocular migraine and going off the pill, I became pregnant with DS19.
If it weren't for getting that ocular migraine, I don't know whether/when I would've decided to try and conceive again...
I've gone years without getting them, and then sometimes I'll get a few a year. I don't usually get much pain from them, just the sparkly, jagged bright circles that expand around a ring of "blindness", until it expands so wide that it goes beyond my field of vision, and then after a bit I can see again. Not fun to experience, but supposedly they're harmless (for the most part).