Should the FE gifts be wrapped? And are we supposed to put anything on it about who it is from? I know i would like to know who things are from just because from the sounds of it many people are putting in many hours of thought and/or work into the gifts. (in my case its probably thought

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And here is my disclaimer: many of you seem very crafty and creative...I am neither, so please don't be offended if my FE gifts are not as cool as some you have gotten. Unfortunately I have a very demanding job and way too many kids so I don't have as much free time as I'd like. Which is why I chose the laundry icon as part of my signature...phew I can't wait for the cruise!
So, anyway, I hope store bought trinkets are ok?
Oh and does anyone have a problem with temporary tattoos? I found some cute character tattoos but I know that some parents don't approve so I don't want to give anything that the parent wouldn't be ok with. Thanks, I'll try to stop being paranoid and over thinking it.
And Halloween is fine with my family. DH & I actually dressed as pirates for Halloween two years ago so maybe we'll bring the costumes for pirate night...
First, I am a total newbie so I'm not speaking from experience, just from what I've learned through the preparation for this one!!
I don't know if there is an actual "it's supposed to be this way" about it.

It's my understanding that its just for fun and you can do pretty much whatever you want...if you wanna make the gifts then great, if you don't have the time/creative ability, then store bought is the way to go. No one should take offense to this stuff. I know that's not usually how the world works so I totally understand where your coming from with the paranoid thoughts! I've been having them too,

then I realized I was just WAY over thinking the situation...
Here's my take on it (hopefully, without spoiling any surprises)...

I am "packaging up" my items in a cute way for the kids, not necessarily wrapping them, but they will have to "open" them to see the goodies inside...

Although you could wrap them if you wanted to and I think the kids would get a kick out of it...at least my oldest would! He LOVES presents!!

I am leaving tags on mine so that you will all know where/who they came from...not because I wanna brag about being creative/crafty, but because I'm kinda OCD and I would like to know who I got things from, so I'm just kinda putting myself in the receiving position for a sec, so I can think what I would like/be pleased with.

I did my best to keep things "even" between the kids (gave them the same amount of things so the parents wouldn't have the headache of hearing "why did she/he get that and I didn't?") cause I know how kids can be and thats just fine cause they are just that...kids! The babies/younger ones kinda got left out in my opinion on a couple of the things the older kids are getting from me, but thats just cause I wouldn't give these things to my baby cause she's too young, so I'm trying to keep the parents in mind as well...I wanna stay respectful and not have anyone wonder "why would she give THAT to a baby??" I tried to compensate the missing items with 'baby friendly" items that I would give my baby and I think I was pretty successful with that.

My gifts are a mix of things I am crafty enough to make and store bought items I thought were age appropriate. I am a stay-at-home-mom who used to be a full-time-job-having single mom, so I know both sides of the spectrum! My family and I will not be offended in any way by store bought items purchased by the busy full-time worker, nor will we be disappointed to receive hand-made items from the crafty folk who have alot more time on their hands! (Like Me!!

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I actually had the same paranoid thought about the temporary tattoos, so now I'm realizing maybe it wasn't so paranoid of a thought if others are having it too!!

I would like to know if others mind them as well?

My family does not have a problem with them...our son likes them cause they are "cool" and I, having real tattoos myself, would look kinda silly tellin' my kids you can't wear a fake one, right?!
I hope this helps ease your mind.

Just don't over-think it too much like I did at first! All I ended up with was a bit of a headache

and HUGE mess of mixed up "gift ideas" all over my kitchen table!!
Oh and as for dressng up for Pirate Night...I know I've said it before, but just to let anyone who hasn't read my earlier posts know, our entire family will be dressing up in full costume.

I kinda went all out for that cause I hear from a friend who did this cruise earlier this year that Pirate Night was the most fun she'd had in a long time and that she wished she had brought costumes for her and her husband and their kids, but they had never cruised Disney before and knew nothing about it till close to the cruise and were afraid of being the only ones dressed up, so they skipped it and regret it. I don't wanna regret it, so we're just gonna do it.
I know this was like a 5 mile long speech

and I'm sorry for that...I was on a roll once I started typing! LOL!
Thanks for reading my book...
WOOT!! Only 18 more days!!

Sorry, a little excited!!!
~ Brandy ~