Here's the way we did it (with Deluxe, and without Park Hoppers)...
First things first -- we put together a list of our "must do" restaurants. Making the ADRs for them was the first order of business, and based on when we got those, we planned our park days around them. Then, we filled in any additional ADRs around the park schedule we worked up.
Without park hoppers, I strongly suggest skipping EMH whenever possible. You'll be dealing with heavy crowds much of the time. If you must do an EMH park, prefer the AM EMH park. Get there at EMH rope drop and go full-bore until about noonish, when the park starts to get packed. Collect, but do not use fastpasses throughout the morning as best as you can. Do your lunch (note that CS places will be packed from noon to 2:00 or so), then spend the afternoon using your fastpasses, any ride that has minimal to no line, taking in the parades or other shows, shopping, etc. Or you can take some of the afternoon off for a rest, swimming, etc. Your dinner can then be scheduled early enough so that you can return to the park in time for fireworks.