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Ava31

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I've found it increasingly difficult to go to bed each night because I'm so enamored by the DIS!

I thought I'd post a little bit about myself and why I'm here.

I was last (and first) at WDW when I was 12, back in 1987. I went with a small family group (parents, brother, uncle) and remember bits and pieces about the trip, but mostly remember thinking that it was the best family vacation ever.

DH and I have been married for 11.5 years and have been blessed with children for the past 6. Remembering how much fun I had, I begged with him to go there for our honeymoon. Alas, we were very young and strapped for cash, so he couldn't justify spending the money on what he felt was a "kiddie vacation."

My oldest daughter will be 6 next month and the youngest is about a year and a half. Understandably, people will think I'm insane for bringing the little one to Disney, but I feel like this will be the most magical of times for the older one. I don't want her to miss the enchantment that a 6-year-old must feel upon entry to the Magic Kingdom. I was 12 and I remember it being a huge blast, but the pixie dust had settled in my life and it was mostly just an elaborate amusement park. If I wait until the baby is old enough to appreciate it, I'm afraid Cassidy will be too much of a young lady and not enough of a kid.

This brings me to reason #2 for going now, despite Baby DD's age. My brother passed away suddenly of congestive heart failure back in January. This was devastating to all of us, to say the least. He was a mere 37-years-old and, although he was diabetic and had high blood pressure, we were utterly unprepared. About 2 months following his death, as I stood in the shower, I had an epiphany. If my life were to follow the pattern of my brother's, I would be diagnosed with diabetes this year, and I would be dead in 6 years. And strangely enough, when I thought of what I absolutely had to do before I died, I realized that I wanted nothing more than to take my babies to Disney World. The plan to go during the holidays might be crazy, but it was mostly to ease our first holiday season without my brother.

So, on December 27, DH, DD1, and DD2, along with my parents and I, will embark on our first and second family trip to the place Where Dreams Come True.
 
Welcome!Yes this site is very addicting!Glad you joined us!Your DD will have a blast ,our 6 & 7 year old girls did! :wave2:
 
I did not get to go as a child, nor did DH. We both grew up in modest homes. My dad was a preacher and DH's dad was military. Neither of us had much money so, a trip to WDW wasn't possible. So, we went together the first time when we were dating. Then we went again for our honeymoon. We promised to take our kids, no matter what it cost. Yes, it was fun as an adult, but the magic in your kids eyes can not be duplicated any other way. My DH had to have open heart surgery a little over 2 years ago, and we said after such as close call, if his Dr. ever cleared him for such as trip, we were taking the kids. Well, he cleared him in Jan. we made ressies in Feb. and we are going this year. I understand all too well the need to go after such a close call. You need to take your family and make the most of it. Then try to go again, when your little one is a little older to remember it as well. We decided to try to go again in about 3 or 4 more years and do some of the older things with kids, but this trip is all about them. All the girlie girl princess stuff that I can pack in. :cloud9:
 
We went last year and the youngest was 10 months. She loved it. We are going again and she'll be 2 at the end of August. Don't sweat it. You will have a great time. All of you.
 

HI :wave2:
hope you all have a magical trip :goodvibes
 
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Hope you have a wonderful trip. You will love it!
 
Hope you have a wonderful trip....

Children IMO are never too young to go to disney for 1st time... I will be taking my 6 month old there in just 3 more weeks :banana: for his first visit to the mouse... my dd 2.5 went for her 1st time to WDW last year at 1.5 and LOVED it!! She's excited to go back even :thumbsup2
 
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Ava31 said:
If I wait until the baby is old enough to appreciate it, I'm afraid Cassidy will be too much of a young lady and not enough of a kid.

Wise mom.

Oh, Ava! You are new, but with what you have written, I have a feeling you are "one of the ones who gets it"! Not everyone looks at WDW through the eyes of their children, trying to justify a WDW vacation...I mean, REALLY looks at it from a child's point of view.

Lol...presenting the magic to a 6 year old is priceless and irreplaceable. I first experienced the magic (Disneyland) for two days, over 40 years ago when I was 16...don't get me wrong, I LOVED it immediately and I was 16 years old...but introducing my own children to WDW from the time they were 2 (the youngest were 2...the oldest were teens), taught me over the years that the ages from 5 to 10 are the windows that magnify the magic. Of course, if you are a true believer in fairies and pixie dust...you believe even past that age, but in today's world there is so much more to lure a child's interest that sadly, fairies get forgotten.

Welcome to the boards!

PS: Getting to go/do this with your parents is a double blessing.
 
Ozymoe said:
Wise mom.

Oh, Ava! You are new, but with what you have written, I have a feeling you are "one of the ones who gets it"! Not everyone looks at WDW through the eyes of their children, trying to justify a WDW vacation...I mean, REALLY looks at it from a child's point of view.

Lol...presenting the magic to a 6 year old is priceless and irreplaceable. I first experienced the magic (Disneyland) for two days, over 40 years ago when I was 16...don't get me wrong, I LOVED it immediately and I was 16 years old...but introducing my own children to WDW from the time they were 2 (the youngest were 2...the oldest were teens), taught me over the years that the ages from 5 to 10 are the windows that magnify the magic. Of course, if you are a true believer in fairies and pixie dust...you believe even past that age, but in today's world there is so much more to lure a child's interest that sadly, fairies get forgotten.

Welcome to the boards!

PS: Getting to go/do this with your parents is a double blessing.

Well put. My thoughts exactly.

Adding to that, though, is that WDW has a ton of things for adults to do. Or maybe I just haven't grown up and "think" there are a lot of adult things to do. :rotfl:
 
Ozymoe said:
PS: Getting to go/do this with your parents is a double blessing.

I went to WDW for the first time when I was 12. I didn't go back until my son was 12, about 20 years later. I forgot how wonderful it was being there and all the fun I had. When we went I was able to go with my parents, husband, son and daughter (6). The look on thier faces was priceless. I just regret that I didn't have the money to take them to WDW before this time. We had the best time as a family and I am happy to say we are leaving in a couple of days to return to WDW.

To see my children happy and having fun was the best part for me. Okay, I admit it, I also got to see Miss Piggy and Woody and that was great too!

In regards to visiting with parents...It was the best time I have had with my dad (I'm a big daddy's girl!) ever! We didn't let day long rain showers keep us in doors. We ended up stomping in water puddles together. I may never have the chance to do this again. On this night, I was the little girl again, holding her daddy's hand with the biggest grin on my face and stars (tears?) in my eyes.

:love:
 
We are going to WDW in October becuase I feel my oldest is almost at the end of the disney magic. Don't get me weong anyone would love disney but while they are young is just different. This will be our first family vacation, and my oldest is 9. I cannot tell you how excited I am to be going. I haven't been since 1994 and will also be staying onsite for the first time. :yay:
 
Welcome to the DIS !!! We all will get addicted.
 
pambo'shouse said:
We are going to WDW in October becuase I feel my oldest is almost at the end of the disney magic. Don't get me weong anyone would love disney but while they are young is just different. This will be our first family vacation, and my oldest is 9. I cannot tell you how excited I am to be going. I haven't been since 1994 and will also be staying onsite for the first time. :yay:

OMG...OMG...OMG...

Lol...you are in for the vacation of a lifetime! Please PM me if you have any questions!
 
I hope you and your family enjoy every minute of your trip (its Disney how could you not?) Just remember to pace yourself. I just finalized the adoption of my neice and nephew and we are going to Disney to celebrate a new start. :cool1: :woohoo: I am wishing you much pixie dust and a wonderful time. pixiedust: pixiedust: :wave:
 
Thanks to all for the well wishes!

mom2taylorandemily said:
My DH had to have open heart surgery a little over 2 years ago, and we said after such as close call, if his Dr. ever cleared him for such as trip, we were taking the kids. Well, he cleared him in Jan. we made ressies in Feb. and we are going this year. I understand all too well the need to go after such a close call. You need to take your family and make the most of it. Then try to go again, when your little one is a little older to remember it as well.

The circumstances that pushed you to go aren't exactly ideal, but I think everyone needs a "seize the day" experience once in awhile. We fully plan on making the trip when the baby is 5 or 6, so she can experience the magic, too. I hope you have the time of your lives!

Tanya90210 said:
my dd 2.5 went for her 1st time to WDW last year at 1.5 and LOVED it!! She's excited to go back even :thumbsup2

Obviously, all kids have different reactions to things (my little one tends to be a bit cantankerous), but it's great to know that your DD remembers it fondly!

Ozymoe said:
Lol...presenting the magic to a 6 year old is priceless and irreplaceable...but introducing my own children to WDW from the time they were 2 (the youngest were 2...the oldest were teens), taught me over the years that the ages from 5 to 10 are the windows that magnify the magic...but in today's world there is so much more to lure a child's interest that sadly, fairies get forgotten.

PS: Getting to go/do this with your parents is a double blessing.

I can't wait to introduce my 6-year-old. I just know that she will be in heaven. She's a very sensitive little girl and I know she'll find the fairies everywhere. With regards to my parents, I'm thrilled that they agreed to go with us because they could use some magic in their lives right now.

Zaem said:
It was the best time I have had with my dad (I'm a big daddy's girl!) ever! We didn't let day long rain showers keep us in doors. We ended up stomping in water puddles together. I may never have the chance to do this again. On this night, I was the little girl again, holding her daddy's hand with the biggest grin on my face and stars (tears?) in my eyes.

Reading this brought tears to my eyes. Thank you for pointing out that there is another motivation for the trip.

pambo'shouse said:
I cannot tell you how excited I am to be going. I haven't been since 1994 and will also be staying onsite for the first time. :yay:

Have an incredible time and make sure you take lots of pictures!

ginglemouse said:
I just finalized the adoption of my neice and nephew and we are going to Disney to celebrate a new start.

That is such a wonderful idea! Those kids are lucky to have you.



Being on this board just reinforces my excitement because there are so many people excited with and for me. DIS rocks! :rockband:
 
I don't think a mom ever gets over seeing disney through her childrens eyes. No matter how old they get. But that first trip is truly magical!!
 














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