I have so many questions, and I think some may be silly, so please be patient with me! 1: We have 3 kids, and DD2 is a bit high spirited. Some would call her naughty, but we are thinking positive! Is it safe to have her on a ship? Can she get over the railings?! I really want a veranda, but I don't know if it's safe. 2: I am thinking we should wait a couple years. (See above!) When do the dates typically come out? 3: We really want to sail on the Fantasy, do they ever do west coast with the Fantasy? If not, do you think they ever will? 4: After my cruise is paid for, what do I have to pay for on the ship? Food is covered except for special dining right? Like Palo? 5: How much can you feel the ship move? Is it constant and really noticeable? Any help you can give me would be great. I have been reading these boards and I am really hoping to cruise in the next 2 years or so. Thanks Guys!!