Need mom (or dad) cooking help

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I am a working mom and I sometimes do not get home with the kids until 6:30. It seems that I never cook because of time. I am afraid my kids think that dinner means either eating out, ordering in, or microwaving frozen food.

I need help! My New Year resolution is to actually cook for my family! I need easy ideas or recipes to get me in the right direction. Even though I am a decent cook when I have the time, I need SIMPLE stuff. A few things about my family to help you -


ME - I will eat anything (well.. almost anything)
DH - Can we say meat and potatoes???? When he is adventurous, I can do green beans and corn!
DD8 - willing to try stuff but doesn't like spicy
DS6 - Little dad

I am willing to make the branch out or hide healthy stuff in the food. Any ideas would be helpful!
 
I tend to use a lot of short cuts when I cook- like actual Perdue chicken shortcuts to make Tacos, enchiladas etc- I can whip up a taco dinner in minutes using those! I also use the crock pot, throw everything in, go to work, come home and have a meal ready when I walk in the door!
 
Since your DH is a "meat and potatoes" kind of guy, it should be fairly simple.. Most meats cook in a very short period of time (if already thawed, of course) and boiling potatoes and then mashing them can pretty much be done in the amount of time it takes to cook the meat..

Now that it's winter, how would they feel about a "soup and sandwich" night?

How about a "breakfast" night?

Anyone like the flavored rice mixes that Lipton has available? Great with chicken; beef; pork; etc.. Very quick to prepare!
 
I'd like to see some quick recipes, too.
 

The secret of my success in putting home cooked meals on the table is two fold.....crockpot and/or spending a morning during the weekend preparing casseroles or dishes that can be easily thrown in the oven for eating later in the week.
 
This is a meal that you start the day before. Doing it in steps breaks up the process and makes it seem even simpler!

Day #1- In the morning, before work, take a beef roast out of the freezer and let it thaw during the day.

That night, salt and pepper it and stick it in the oven until it's med-rare.
(I line the roasting pan w/ silver foil to make clean-up easy!)

While it cools, in your slow-cooker, mix up some gravy from a powdered mix.
Slice the roast into 3/4" slices and place in the gravy. To really kick it up, add 1/2 cup red wine and slice some onions on top. Refrigerate the ceramic portion of your slow cooker.

Day #2-In the morning put the ceramic w/ meat onto the slow cooker and set at low while you are at work.

When you come home all you have to do is boil water for noodles and nuke a frozen package of veggies. The beef will be very tender from slow-cooking all day! Easy home-cooked meal. Tastes like more work than it is!
 
The best thing that I have found is a subscription to a cooking magazine called Simple and Delicious. Their website is www.bestsimplerecipes.com.

I subscribed to this magazine about 4 years ago, when DH requested that I do more cooking. It has been a lifesaver! They have tons of recipes that are easy to prepare, and have normal ingredients. I never have to run to the store for a specialty item.
 
Another suggestion: There's a thread here called the What's for Dinner thread. I have gotten some wonderful quick recipes there that my family all love! You gotta try the crockpot chicken and dumpling recipe!
 
I also recommend doing a place like Dream Dinners or Super Suppers at least once. You'll get some good ideas there about how to premake food, and you'll walk out with 10 meals ready to go!

I did a local version earlier this month, and it was a lifesaver!
 
I love my George Foreman grill. It doesn boneless chicken breasts in 8 minutes or less. Boneless pork chops in 6 minutes. I use a marinade or rub and it tastes different each time. To help with clean up we put a wet paper towel between the grills while we eat and it steams the mess off the grills. But they have grills that go in the dishwasher now too.
I also brown several pounds of ground beef at once and then freeze it in one pound ziploc bags. It's easy to heat up some spaghetti sauce and just dump the meat in.
 
During our premarital Church counseling, we had to do a group ice-breaker where one of the questions we had to answer was our favorite common vegetable. We had to say ketchup:rolleyes1

After 16 years, I proud to say that DH has gotten more adventurous, but still sticks to the basics.

I have one crockpot meal a week. Typically, this is a pork loin roast (mix up 1c apple juice, 1 tsp garlic powder, 2 tbs cider vinegar, 2 tbs sugar, 2 tbs worcestershire sauce, 1 tsp onion powder and a dash of salt & pepper - I use Mrs. Dash instead of s&p). Pour liquid over pork loin, cook in crockpot on low 8 hours. It pulls apart, it is so tender. I serve with rice and steamed veggies.

Swedish meatballs is another family favorite - I double the recipe and freeze the extra set of meatballs to make it even faster the next time. For one dinner, I use 1 lb of ground beef, 3/4 c plain breadcrumbs, 2 tbs chopped parsley (fresh), 1 egg, nutmeg, pepper. Blend these, roll into 1" meatballs. Cook on medium heat in an electric skillet (put about 1 tbs of butter in the pan before adding the meat). When the meatballs are no longer pink, remove from the skillet (I put on paper towel on a plate). Freeze any extra at this point. Drain pain, leaving approx 1/4 c drippings and add 1 tsp beef boullion (sp?) and 2 tbs flour. Stir until a paste forms, add 2 c milk, stirring constantly until thickened. Add seasoning to taste. When gravy is bubbling, return meatballs to pan and heat through. Serve over egg noodles with a veggie on the side.

Another trick I use to speed things up is to load up on boneless skinless chicken breast when it is on sale. I divide it up into meal size portions, putting them in freezer bags. Then I add marinade to the bags (sometimes I make my own, sometimes I use terriyaki sauce) and freeze them. On the day we are going to eat chicken, I take it out of the freezer and it marinates as it thaws. Grilling it only takes a few minutes. With the terriyaki, I also grill slices of pineapple and serve with rice and steamed veggie.

Finally, the biggest help for me is to menu plan. It's a hassle, but it helps keep us on track, prevents us from having take-out too often and helps me make sure I have the necessary ingredients. It really does make a difference. DH is not much of a cook, but if I am running late, he can see what we are having and start doing the prep work.
 
I love the cookbook "The Warehouse Gourmet". I've recommended it a few times here on the DIS, and I know another DISer bought the cookbook, and is also recommending it too!

This cookbook has the same concept of the dinner/prep/freeze/thaw/cook concept.

There are several recipes on their website, and we found that by this type of cooking, we were able to adapt many of our current recipes for this type of concept.

THis book is well worth the cost and shipping. (Shipping was about $6 if my memory serves me correctly.)

I bought this for one of my nieces a couple of months ago, when her triplets were about 6 months old. If she didn't live out of town, I would have found a way to actually get some meals ready for her, but that just wasn't a good option. She loves it as well.

The website is: http://www.warehousegourmet.com/

I know there was a thread a while back about this too, try searcing on: chicken dump
This should get you some recipes that you get all the ingredients together, freeze/thaw/cook ; same concept as the cookbook.
 
The secret of my success in putting home cooked meals on the table is two fold.....crockpot and/or spending a morning during the weekend preparing casseroles or dishes that can be easily thrown in the oven for eating later in the week.

This is exactly what I do. I just finished up for the day. I made:

spaghetti sauce- Used lots of fresh veggies and ground turkey, put it in 1/2 gallon size ziplocks, lay them flat on a cookie sheet in the freezer and once they're frozen, you can stack them of line them up like books in your freezer. It takes 10 minutes to cook pasta and warm up the sauce in the microwave. Sprinkle a little parm on top and dinner in uder 20.

TIP- for working and breastfeeding moms. If you pump and freeze, this flat freezing methos works great with those breastmilk storage bags, saves you tons of space, I swear! My cow lady days are over, but I learned this freezing method from another working/pumping mom.

Beef Stew- Can be frozen in bags like above, or in tupperware so they can go with my husband when he has to work through the dinner hour. Beef Stew can be heated on the stove top in a few minutes once defrosted.

Chicken soup- Same as above

Crock pot "pre-mixes"- They are sort of like those crock pot meals in a bag you can buy at the grocery, but I make them myself and freeze them. I can toss a whole bag of pre-mixed ingrediants in the crock pot in the morning and have dinner waiting when I get home.

Chicken salad- I usually have chicken salad sandwiches with either salad or some kind of soup one night a week. Easy to spread it on hoagie rolls with some lettuce and tomatoe and heat up some soup. I have all kinds of frozen bags of homemade soup in my freezer at any given time because when I make it, I make a huge pot and freeze it in the "spaghetti sauce method" mentioned above.

MISC- Hard boiled a dozen eggs. These can be used in a salad, chopped up or you can make egg salad sandwiches. Just hard boil them, give them 20 mins to cool and refridgerate them. DOn't make more than you think you'll use, they are only good for 5 or 6 days in the fridge. You can also have this for breakfast, slice up the egg (omit the yolk if you're watching your cholesterall) with a slice of avacado on toast, excellent.

baked and shredded chicken. Used some to make chicken soup, some to make chicken salad and kept some to toss in a salad. If I'm going to make saad a meal for a night, I'll use lettuce, tomatoes, cukes, some shredded chicken and some kind of cheese, whatever is on sale at the deli that week. I will also sometimes make a ham and slice, cube and shred it to use in various meals as with the chicken.

TIP- if you plan to make something like a roast with cut veggies, cut and peel your carrots and potatoes ahead of time, store them in your fridge in a ziplock bag with some water.

TIP- make sure you have a good permanant marker to mark your bags and extensive brand trials have led me to the conclusion that the store brand zip bags work just as well as the name brand and cost half the money.

TIP- Plan your meals a month in advance, even if you don't shop and cook a month in advance, you can at least see what else is going on during one of your cooking mornings. I have all my meals made for this week, for example, but I also marked spaghetti, beef stew and chicken soup nights for the rest of January, since I already made and froze that stuff. Generally the last week of the month, I have very little to do because earlier in the month, I'll have made extra of this or that and froze it.

TIP- WHenever you make anything freezable, double the recipe and FREEZE half of it.

Let me know if any of this sounds appealing and I'll send recipes.
 
Here's one I make every other week and it takes maybe 1/2 and hour at the most. I saw it on Emeril Live.

1 cup fresh diced tomatoe
1/2 yellow onion chopped
2 large chicken breast
slices of green onion (only the top)
2 tbs parlsey
3/4 cup cream
3 cloves of garlic minced
1 lb linguini noodles
Romano or Parmasan cheese - grated

cut all ingrediants. Cut the chicken into bite size pieces. Start the water boiling for the linguini. In a large pan fry the chicken with some olive oil and garlic salt. Once the chicken is done sautee the onion until soft. Add garlic untill fragrant and add the tomatoes and cream. Let it boil for a few minutes
to reduce and add the green onion top and parsley.

Drain noodles when done and add to mixture. Add desired cheese and it's done!

Simple and we love it!

Deb
 
for starters the crock pot is your best friend. If you don't have one, you need one. So many things can be cooked in there and best part is that since it simmers in sauce all day the meats are really tender. Some of DH's favorites (I don't eat meat)

Chicken breasts with either a gravy (use canned) or a cream of something soup. Water it down a little as the water will cook out a bit

chicken breasts with an entire bottle of inexpensive barbecue sauce (the one I buy is 97¢ at Target) again, I add some water, usually I will add a bit of water to get the rest of the sauce out of the bottle and this works well. You can also use chicken on the bones, it will be so tender it falls right off. This one is a HUGE hit with DH's work friends.

Some sort of roast, with gravy, carrots, celery and potatoes right in the crock pot too.

Kid favorite- English muffin pizzas. Use the muffins as the "crust" and put little dishes of sauce and toppings on the table. The kids like it because they get to make their own and as long as you have the oven heated to like 450 it will not take very long at all to cook once they're ready to go in.

Pretty much any meat can be put in the crock pot and then just vary the sauces. I know my mom likes to make chicken cacciatore in there.

Do things like make a ton of rice or noodles on Sunday so that all you have to do is reheat to go with whatever is in your crock pot.

Things like shepherd's pie or baked mac & cheese can be made on Saturday or Sunday and cooked a few days later.

I think, as someone else mentioned, that making a menu is a HUGE step. We had a really big problem with take out and eating out a few years ago and it really helped to make a menu ahead of time. I posted it on the cabinet. Leave yourself some wiggle room for take out nights or restaurant nights if your family really enjoys it but it will be really nice to save all that money. Now what we try to do is think about what that money could have bought instead. ie- we spent $35 on Thai takeout, that could have been a pair of Crocs, or how much that could have bought at the grocery store, or new jeans or 1/2 a room night at Pop Century. It seems a little crazy, I know, but thinking of it like that makes it not seem like such a great thing to eat out or go out all the time. DH and I were the takeout/restaurant king and queen for awhile.

Good luck, I am a SAHM and I still find it hard to cook every night sometimes
 
crock pots are Gods gift to working

moms.

I don't cook but I DO crockpot. It's so easy!!! Just fish it out when you're ready and you have a meal like MOM used to make! lol If you don't cook most nights now, it is unreasonable to think you will cook every night just because you resolve it. Try everyother for a while. Allow a tomato soup and grilled cheese night. Ask your husband to cook a night every once in a while to help save money. My husband will cook anything as long as he doesn't have to decide what it is or plan ahead and shop. He's great about stopping at the grocery on the way home with ingredients though. I think one of the biggest obstacles to cooking is knowing there is cleaning up to do as well. I have a paper plate night once in a great while(bad for the environment, I know) and a night where everyone gets either a spoon or a fork-not all three utensils. When I make chili, I freeze half of it and get it out two weeks later for a microwave meal. I also cook 2 extra chicken breasts and make a chicken salad two days later for the grownups with something else for the boy. We have burrito night where I just open a can of refrieds, sprinkle cheese on them and nuke them. Kids love them just like that but we grownups use salsa and sourcream sometimes. Make extra mashed potatoes and brown some beef or in our case fake meat for shepherds pie.
 
You all are wonderful! Keep them coming! I do have to admit - I am afraid of crockpots! I have this fear of burning the house down while I am at work! But I think I am going to have to face this fear by just crocking it!
 
Finally, the biggest help for me is to menu plan. It's a hassle, but it helps keep us on track, prevents us from having take-out too often and helps me make sure I have the necessary ingredients. It really does make a difference. DH is not much of a cook, but if I am running late, he can see what we are having and start doing the prep work.

I totally agree with this! It's so important to have a plan!

I sit down with my family once a month, and have them write down a couple of meals they would like to see during the month. With 6 members of the family, that takes care of 12 meals right there. I write the menu on my calendar, and then I can fill in the blanks with favorite things, or new recipes I want to try.

I go shopping once a week, and get everything that I will need for that week. I also make sure that the recipes for dinners are in a binder by the stove. That way, whoever is home when it's time to start dinner (hubby or me), can start dinner. It's a great thing for us all. The kids always know what's for dinner, and they know if they need to help out.
 


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