DD is bi-racial so has
very curly hair, but wanted to agree with a couple of the posters above. We use conditioner to "shampoo" her hair (co-wash like pp mentioned). There are enough cleansing agents in conditioner for her hair to get clean without it being a "shampoo." Shampoo strips the hair of natural oils. The brand we use for DD's co-wash is Suave Almond and Shea Butter.
I also agree with the pp that said combing her hair out with a wide tooth comb in the shower with conditioner on it is key. We leave Herbal Essence Hello Hydration in DD's hair, but again, her ringlets are as skinny as a pencil and dry, so she needs tons of moisture. That might be too much moisture for your DD. Leaving a little in will help. Also, don't comb through her hair when it's dry. This damages the ends. You can use a water bottle and put some conditioner (like 1/4 conditioner, 3/4 water) to use to spritz her hair with when combing through outside the bath.
Also, depending on the length-- make a simple braid or two at night before she sleeps. This will keep it manageable for the morning. And if her hair doesn't get oily, she does NOT need it washed every day. DD only gets her hair "washed" twice a week, but spritzed with conditioner every day.
If her hair is dry and curly, I could give you a ton of products that are more expensive, but the two above are our staples. I'm a prodcut junkie for DD. I've done tons of research about this because I have straight, fine hair that gets oily and has to be washed daily--complete opposite of DD. I'm proud to say that everywhere we go, people stop us to compliment her hair.
