Need Help

[paintballer]

OK.
My crush is 15.
I'm 13.

My parents say i can't date.

i whould like to talk to them about leting my date but every time i talk to them i get SOOOOOO MAD


HELP

 

[bugabri]

try asking your mom about it women seem to be more sympathetic towards that kinda thing. Dating when ur 13 doenst consist of much because neither one of you will be able to drive so your transportation needs would be provided by your parents and you cant rlly go any where any way mall movies not much lol but like i said ask your mom dads are way to overprotective

 

[paintballer]

ok one more fact

she just got her licence or permit and almost has it

 

[bugabri]

a guess thats a positive but thats probably another reason ur parents would not let you go with someone who can drive but girls i guess are more resonsible drivers lol not that i have any experience but yea lol if you got any ?'s ur can feel free to pm me

 

[Rockstar mentality]

wat i would do personaly is LIE. Thats just me.

 

[taz]

Im 13, cant date... but would like too

 

[bugabri]

Lol lie thats always a great alternative bet that gets you far Rockstar lol jk

 

[Rockstar mentality]

no im saying last resort. it has got me far wen i needed to use it. ok and ahead of time yes i know i a bad person blahblah.

 

[bugabri]

i guess i must be a bad person to lol were not bad just clever in a weird kinda way lol. i just lie if i get rlly nervous about something and then ill follow that up by doing somethin rlly stupid

 

[Rockstar mentality]

haha were not bad everyone does it i was jk. buy it does make things esaier but the problem is it will always get u back. when u get soo good that it doesent then it will compelty consume your life. trust me thats not what anyone wants

 

[bugabri]

very true if i do lie there little white lies that rlly dont have any meaning but ur right it does come back cuz then you forget sum of the details and look even dumber when it come back ur way

 

[Rockstar mentality]

remember how i said u dont want it to occupy your life. weel it sorta does mine. i can remember my lies amazingly well and i cant remember a common persons name. one time long story short i was being 4 diffrent people online 3 with permession one without and i got away with it and never went back and looked stupid with what i said

 

[Tinkerrat]

i would ask your parents to sit down and have a chat with you thne randomly in the conversation ask if you can date

but does this girl want to date you?
because if she doesn't there is no point of even asking
i'm 13 and not aloud to date, but i'm cool with it, if its something that really bugs you, go ahead and ask. what is the worst that could happen?they say no, well if you can't date know you don't have anything to lose. but make sure you remain calm, cool, colective, and mature

good luck

 

[Pirate Me]

Personally, I think 13 is too young. Wait a little. I don't think a strong relationship would be able to develop so young.

 

[reminisce]

Personally, I think 13 is too young. Wait a little. I don't think a strong relationship would be able to develop so young.

i agree with the waiting. if you really want this to work out for more than a couple of months, then you should give yourself some time. if you, like me, are too impatient, then talk to your mom about it. get her reasoning, KEEP YOUR HEAD, and calmly **this is key** tell her your side of things. if this doesnt work, then waiting is probably your best option- lying to your parents leads to much bigger problems than not being allowed to date.