need advice... what would you do?

[i_luv_potc]

my friend and I just got into a huge fight about something that happened. (it's a long story... well it's not that long, but i dunno if i should post it) and she got all of her friends mad at me too. even though they weren't involved at all. (Well atleast i know who my real friends are because although they were my "friend" friends too and she told them not to talk to me... they still talked to me anyway) so now schools out and she starts calling me and acting like she's my friend again as if none of that happened. and that really bugs me!!! she's like "Hey melissa! What's up. I'm so bored. Wanna come over?" and stuff, and i'm thinking what the heck!!!??? so i made up some excuse not to go. what should i do?


thanx for listening to me...

 

[imabrat]

if i were you i would say" i dont know about you but u got all my friends mad at me and u were mad ate me too.so dont try to be all good buudywith me" and then walk away.

 

[Sonne]

Tell her that since she's so bored, right now would be a good time for her to explain to you what happened and why she did what she did.

 

[ImagineerBabe]

I have been in this situation before and i know how you feel. If she asks you to come over again, just tell her that you are hanging out with some of your other friends and that your too busy to go to her house. This will make her realize that her plan didnt work..

 

[Tink3rb3ll]

I have a friend (well...) exactly like that... she used to spread rumors about me to my friends, and even to her mom so that they would all get mad at me. Of course, she pretended like nothing ever happened. One day I had enough and told her the truth about what I thought about the whole situation. I ended up moving (not because of that, of course), and my friends tell me she still spreads rumors about me. I now live 6 hours away, why does she think it's going to bother me? There are always people out there that want to be the center of the universe... sounds to me like she's jealous of you. You have to stand up to her and tell her how you feel, otherwise she's going to keep acting that way. Believe me, I know

 

[i_luv_potc]

There are always people out there that want to be the center of the universe...

yup, she's like that




thnx everyone

 

[i_luv_potc]

i just came back from tour with a chior group. somehow she managed to get in the chior (she can't sing AT ALL. she may be just as bad as william hung) and she wouldn't leave me alone! I even got really nasty with her too because she was so rude!! even the girls in my group don't like her because she was rude to them too!!

things that bothered me:
1. she was really bossy
2. she wanted it her way the whole time
3. she hung out with my group instead of hers
4. she didn't ask to hang out with my group
5. didn't listen to our leader
6. often walked off on her own without telling us
7. made me sit in another char because she was "tired" and wanted to rest her feet on my chair.
8. she came to visit my room, so i pretended to be asleep and she came over to me and yelled WAKE UP really loud in my face... so i hid under the covers. Which still didn't make her go away. So my roomates covered for me got got her to leave.
9. there's more... but you probably don't want to hear me coomplain anymore. lol.

i know i'm ranting on, but she is really bothering me. i really yelled at her too and she still won't leave me alone!! is her life that boring?!?!

 

[Spear]

Go to her house and break her stuff, and leave. Then the next day call her and act like it never happened. I would stop hanging around with her.

Late.