Just thought I would give an update. We ended up with 42 people, 17 of which were kids. 8 cancelled the morning of because of sickness - they called and I appreciate them not coming and giving us what they have (and they are family so I know it was true).
As I had made the food the night before, I made 5 trays of ziti with cheese, one tray ziti with just sauce. 5 pounds worth of meatballs, 3 8-packs of hot dogs, bought 6 8 oz. bags of salad and then added tomatoes, peppers and croutons, and 4 packages of 12 count dinner rolls. I also had a ton of my appy's left too.
I HAD WAY TOO MUCH FOOD LEFT!!!!!! I still had 3 trays of cheese ziti, a 1/2 tray of sauce ziti, a ton of meatballs, three bags salad and 2 bags rolls and a dozen hot dogs left. Needless to say, I had a bunch of people over for superbowl to help us finish it and we still ate it another night! I froze the remainder of the meatballs.
Party was a HUGE success - great shout out to JTandDolly who made AMAZING invites and cd labels and covers which were a huge hit. the kids LOVED the disney dance party theme, boogying the day away and loved seeing Mickey and Buzz. Best part, was seeing my 2 year old's face the whole time - he was SOOOO happy. And seeing Mickey made his day.