Thanks for the response!!
I guess by best I was meaning cleanliest, nice hotels that won't break the bank and some close by restaurants or something cool to see in the area. I would imagine my kids would think it was neat to stay downtown but I'm not sure I want to mess with that for one night. Is traffic a mess in that area?
We've actually stayed in Manchester once on our way down, forgot that it was close to that area.
About how far do you think it is from Nashville to the Jack Daniels distillery?
We live in Brentwood, about 20 minutes from downtown Nashville, and we rarely go downtown, honestly. Traffic/parking is generally a nightmare, there is a ton of construction, etc. Lately we've gone into downtown for a few dinners and phew, it's congested

you can find cheap(ish...cheap is a relative word...lol) hotels downtown, but many of the nicer ones are pricey (for us, anyway).
I'm the kind of person who would much rather stay out near Opryland. There's the hotel itself which is a Nashville icon, the Grand Ole Opry, and Opry Mills Mall all right there together. IMAX movie theater, Dave and Busters, etc. Everything you could want, really close. The drive in to downtown isn't bad at all, and it's much less congested than downtown because Briley Parkway is huge.
JD distillery is about an hour and 20 minutes from Nashville proper, if I remember. Once you get off 24 there is basically nothing until you hit Lynchburg. And if you blink, you might even miss that
Good luck!