Marcie,
I almost get the impression that they are "talking up the problems" to the press and such so we won't be surprised when he does take a leave of absence. I think it's coming soon. DW mentioned during qualifying that Gordon's "back bench" of people is better than most teams "front bench" so I get the impression that there are folks there that can step in. If you compare Jeff's qualifying effort with his race effort then yeah, Robbie's head is definitely not in the game. Maybe someone (Jeff or Rick) needs to take the decision away from Robbie and tell him to go take care of his mom, that the team will survive, his being with his mom is more important for him now.