Name One Thing You Like About Getting Older

[Saphire]

I was talking to a co-worker the other day, and she was telling me she was avoiding someone who worked in our building because this person wanted to sign her up to sell products through a home based business, and my co-worker didn't have the courage to come out and tell her she is not interested. So she is spending all this energy trying to avoid her, lol.
There are sooo many things I don't like about getting older, but becoming more assertive is something I am glad about. I used to be like my co-worker, doing things I didn't really want to do and not saying 'No' to people asking me for things.
Tell me something that you like about getting older.

 

[remyandhollandsmommy]

I like getting older because it is one year closer to my girls going away to college or becoming some poor man's burden.

Just kidding LOL, I like it cause I don't have to put up with as much crap and am more knowledgeable about how the world works LOL.

 

[jimmalru80]

I LOVE telling the younger folks at work that it's their turn to carry the supplies down the stairs into the basement. I enjoy telling them stories about "when I was your age....". I appreciate the fact that they come to me for advice and I admire their desire to tap into my experience.

 

[SwedishMeatball]

I'm a lot more kicked back. No more sweatin the small stuff.

 

[Amy&Dan]

Kind of the same as you. As I have gotten older I no longer do anything that I don't want to do. No more candle, tupperware or Pampered Chef parties since I now know I hate them and dont' want to go. No more committees to serve on unless I want to. If someone is not treating me right, be it friend or family, I just back off until they do and if that never happens, well less time spent with people who don't know how to behave. Life is just too short to do things I hate or spend time with people who I feel no tie with. No more "because I have to's".

 

[Blondy876]

I love that I have more confidence in myself.

 

[Disney Doll]

I, too, love the fact that I know who I am and what I want out of life, so I am able to control my time and energy and spend it on what I want to do. People are no longer able to "guilt" me into things, I have learned how to gracefully say no, and can be politely assertive when necessary.

 

[horseshowmom]

Kind of the same as you. As I have gotten older I no longer do anything that I don't want to do. No more candle, tupperware or Pampered Chef parties since I now know I hate them and dont' want to go. No more committees to serve on unless I want to. If someone is not treating me right, be it friend or family, I just back off until they do and if that never happens, well less time spent with people who don't know how to behave. Life is just too short to do things I hate or spend time with people who I feel no tie with. No more "because I have to's".

All of these things plus I have more time now. Part of the reason I have more time is because I learned to say no and quit worrying about trying to "please" everybody (or caring if I did, because you can't meet everybody's expectations).

I also have more time, because my daughter is 19 (going on 20) now. We've been a very close family (and still are), and our lives revolved around horseshowing (which included all three of us). DD has had to slack off almost completely due to college (which has freed up a lot of time for us). Plus, she's old enough now to take the horses and trailer on her own (with a friend or her boyfriend), and we can actually do something else if we want to. While she's the light of our life, I'm enjoying her being out on her own some with good friends and a great boyfriend (who we also love).

I'm at the place now in my job where I really like my situation, and it's flexible which leaves me with lots of options.

I'm nearly 50 (in 3 years) and am totally satisfied with where I am (well, I would like to lose weight! ).

 

[DisneyAddict_M]

I learn more about myself every day.

 

[christineann]

I totally agree with you, SwedishMeatball. When I turned 40, I realized that I was WAY too self conscious about everything. I reached the next milestone a few weeks ago, and a lot of people asked me if it bothered me, etc. I have several friends who didn't live to age 50 and didn't see their children grow up. I consider myself fortunate, not old, and I am happy and comfortable in my own skin. I can look at stuff that would have upset me years ago and think, "whatever".

Another cool thing about getting older is that your smart a$$ little brother and his children come over while you are not home, and they decorate your house with black balloons and miles of black streamers

 

[RitaZ.]

So many things...

Being able to "read" people and learning that my assessment of them is amazingly accurate.

Being able to share your point of view without fearing rejection.

Accept that we don't have as much control as we like to think we do.

Stay away from negative and mean-spirited people.

Doing a good deed because you really want to and not because you think that "you should".

 

[KimR]

I'm just happier in general. I have more disposable income, I'm settled in my career, I have 3 awesome children, and oddly enough, I actually look and feel better than I did in my 20s or 30s. Most importantly, I've stopped trying to be someone I'm not and have gotten to the point where I've stopped trying to 'fix' myself (ok well, with the exception of my looks..that is a work in progress). I've accepted my faults and have learned to work with them rather than fighting against them. It's made a huge difference in my outlook on life and general happiness and satisfaction. I used to really dread aging. I only wish I'd known how happy I would be at this point in my life. For those of you ladies in your 20's and 30s who are dreading getting older: trust me, the 40's are fantastic!!

 

[NEVERENOUGHWDW]

I am finally more decisive.....it was a long tome coming! lol & a blessing for my family!

 

[OceanAnnie]

I don't know the latest band names or hit songs. I don't care. (Never thought I'd see the day!)

I don't keep up with the latest trends. I know what I like and I do my own thing.

I love weekend nights and staying in!

 

[HSMndLKfan92]

I have more freedoms, and I'm going to high school next year.

 

[SwedishMeatball]

I have more freedoms, and I'm going to high school next year.

Cute.

 

[dad2t&e]

Life is good-NO, GREAT! I know who I am and what I want out of life. God is good all of the time. As I mature I see how strong my love for life is. I have God, a wonderful supporting family, wonderful church family and great friends. I can control my time and energy and spend it doing what I want to do. I’ve learned to slow down and enjoy the things around me. I know the things that I have done wrong and I can try to save a young one from doing those things.

 

[jimmiej]

Empty nest, more $

 

[Robinrs]

Surprisingly enough, I love the instant respect I get from the same men who used to just slime all over me... wonderful transition!

I also like being in charge of me, the confidence and the wisdom that comes with experience. I just smile and shake my head when I listen to young people and see that they're going thru the same things I went thru and how truly miniscule they are in the full scheme of life.

For the first time in my life I am now the oldest person in my office area, and all of the "kids" come to ME for advice.... ME!! I was the youngest in my family, the youngest in every class I was ever in and always the youngest person in my job. NOW I'm the sage... whodaTHUNKit!!

I also LOVE telling my age... and watching the reaction!

 

[Buckalew11]

I think "getting a voice" has been a wonderful thing for me. I'm am much better at saying what I think and not worrying whether it is the right thing to say or not.
I don't care if I don't look perfect anymore. (not that I did but I worried about it more)
I don't keep up with fads, I also buy what I love. I used to work in a salon that was like going to a fashion show everyday. God, I am thankful those days are behind me.
I don't feel the need to attend every event that comes along.
It is great being content with what you have and not comparing all that with the Jones'. I learned that a long time ago but as I get older there is less and less pressure.
I actually love being "in my 40s". The 40s are the best so far.