My husband had a heart attack today

[mommasita]

Here is another thread I never hoped I’d have to start

He was feeling off at 10, I told call 911, no he said it was from lifting a tire
I text him every 30 min, nah I’m fine he tells me.
I’ve been 5 days into a stomach bug, and still no solids, so was not thinking my best

At 3 my BIL at the garage calls ambulance is on the way, he can’t talk,and seems to have trouble breathing they hook him up and confirm the hospital. My husband calls me to tell me he loves me and they not make it, so they told him it’s time to call your wife . He did make it, one stent in one Artery, and they saw plaque on the other. Am uktraound tomorrow if that is to be treated with meds or another stent .

So many thoughts beyond the obvious, last week we were away, I’m thankful it was not there. I dispatch ambulances ALL DAY LONG , but them being there in 4 min is exceptional. The cardiologist told me that he nearly did not get to the hospital on time, I’m going to find that call, the team, amd thank them internally.

 

[Dan Murphy]

Here is another thread I never hoped I’d have to start

He was feeling off at 10, I told call 911, no he said it was from lifting a tire
I text him every 30 min, nah I’m fine he tells me.
I’ve been 5 days into a stomach bug, and still no solids, so was not thinking my best

At 3 my BIL at the garage calls ambulance is on the way, he can’t talk,and seems to have trouble breathing they hook him up and confirm the hospital. My husband calls me to tell me he loves me and they not make it, so they told him it’s time to call your wife . He did make it, one stent in one Artery, and they saw plaque on the other. Am uktraound tomorrow if that is to be treated with meds or another stent .

So many thoughts beyond the obvious, last week we were away, I’m thankful it was not there. I dispatch ambulances ALL DAY LONG , but them being there in 4 min is exceptional. The cardiologist told me that he nearly did not get to the hospital on time, I’m going to find that call, the team, amd thank them internally.

Wow!! Thank goodness they got him to the hospital in time. What a wake up call. Hope with prayers that all continues to go well for him, and you, in the coming days and weeks. God bless. 's

 

[mommasita]

Wow!! Thank goodness they got him to the hospital in time. What a wake up call. Hope with prayers that all continues to go well for him, and you, in the coming days and weeks. God bless. 's

Thank you Dan,
Always so thoughtful.

 

[LoveDaisy]

I am so sorry to hear this but I am happy he was able to get to the hospital so quickly. I will keep both of you in my thoughts.

 

[Forevermarypoppins]

I am very relieved to read your husband got to the Emergency Room in time. I'm praying he has a positive, continuous recovery.

 

[Rogue1677x]

Wow, that sounds scary, but thankfully he got to the ER in time. I hope his recovery goes well.

 

[alohamom]

I am so glad the emts got him to the hospital so quickly and that he was able to be treated.
And you are right, thank goodness this didn'thappen while you were away.
I am so sorry to hear this happened but I know a few people who have stents and have been able to live fairly regular lives after the fact with a modified lifestyle. I guess you will know as he progresses but I feel like it is such a good thing he was taken care of quickly.
My thoughts to you all

 

[Jangles]

Thinking of you and your husband. Extremely frightening for you both. I wish your husband a speedy recovery. X

 

[Scootin'By]

I'm really glad he's okay. Sending big hugs

 

[flyingdumbo127]

I thank God dear Mommasita that your husband got okay to the hospital. So many prayers with a ton of love my friend. Please always know we all care and are here for you.

 

[mommasita]

Thank you everyone. My husband came home Saturday afternoon.

 

[Dan Murphy]

Great news, @mommasita. The best.

 

[weewuvvdisney]

Here is another thread I never hoped I’d have to start

He was feeling off at 10, I told call 911, no he said it was from lifting a tire
I text him every 30 min, nah I’m fine he tells me.
I’ve been 5 days into a stomach bug, and still no solids, so was not thinking my best

At 3 my BIL at the garage calls ambulance is on the way, he can’t talk,and seems to have trouble breathing they hook him up and confirm the hospital. My husband calls me to tell me he loves me and they not make it, so they told him it’s time to call your wife . He did make it, one stent in one Artery, and they saw plaque on the other. Am uktraound tomorrow if that is to be treated with meds or another stent .

So many thoughts beyond the obvious, last week we were away, I’m thankful it was not there. I dispatch ambulances ALL DAY LONG , but them being there in 4 min is exceptional. The cardiologist told me that he nearly did not get to the hospital on time, I’m going to find that call, the team, amd thank them internally.

Thinking of you & your husband. So glad that he is okay and made it. The few interactions we had with ambulances (we live in the same city) have all been positive. Although, I get so frustrated when I see drivers not pulling over for emergency vehicles. Why?

 

[mommasita]

Thinking of you & your husband. So glad that he is okay and made it. The few interactions we had with ambulances (we live in the same city) have all been positive. Although, I get so frustrated when I see drivers not pulling over for emergency vehicles. Why?

Thank you
That really pisses me off when they don’t pull over, move over, etc.

He is ok, but it’s not so easy at home. He is going into the garage. I am working from home .. having some panic attacks. He is not listening 100%. He is sitting here with pain now, so I think he’s overdone it. Can’t listen these 55 year old men. I had a serious talk with him, I am the one who is petrified it seems, the garage is not more important than his health, or my mental health

 

[Dan Murphy]

Thank you
That really pisses me off when they don’t pull over, move over, etc.

He is ok, but it’s not so easy at home. He is going into the garage. I am working from home .. having some panic attacks. He is not listening 100%. He is sitting here with pain now, so I think he’s overdone it. Can’t listen these 55 year old men. I had a serious talk with him, I am the one who is petrified it seems, the garage is not more important than his health, or my mental health

Tell him he has to listen to you. Tell him your dis buddies agree with YOU.

 

[mommasita]

Tell him he has to listen to you. Tell him your dis buddies agree with YOU.

My son is flying home tomorrow for a week
So hoping he can just relax with his company, and also LISTEN

 

[Pea-n-Me]

Hugs, mommasita. You have been through so much.

This is what I do for work. So many people wait too long. (Including my own father, who didn’t survive it.)

Just last week I had a man tell me a similar story. He was at work at his garage and having symptoms but wouldn’t let anyone call for help. Until he cardiac arrested on the floor and someone who used an AED saved his life. I actually sat with him for almost an hour, very succinctly talking with him about things that he needed to do now, but I sensed that he was one of those people that it just wasn’t going to sink in, unfortunately.

It’s time for your husband to start to work on modifiable risk factors, if he can. Those are the ones we can change: diet, lifestyle, smoking cessation, exercise, stress reduction, etc. I usually explain to people that the family can actually come out of this healthier than they went in if they can all make changes together. His medical team will have him on aggressive cholesterol and other cardiac med management, and if he has to lose some weight, now’s a good time. If he’s diabetic, make sure his glucose levels are managed with medication, as high levels can accelerate cardiovascular disease. He might consider cardiac rehab to help him get started on the road to recovery. I hope he takes it seriously.

You need to take care of yourself too.

Please PM me if I can be of any help or support. Any time.

 

[mommasita]

Hugs, mommasita. You have been through so much.

This is what I do for work. So many people wait too long. (Including my own father, who didn’t survive it.)

Just last week I had a man tell me a similar story. He was at work at his garage and having symptoms but wouldn’t let anyone call for help. Until he cardiac arrested on the floor and someone who used an AED saved his life. I actually sat with him for almost an hour, very succinctly talking with him about things that he needed to do now, but I sensed that he was one of those people that it just wasn’t going to sink in, unfortunately.

It’s time for your husband to start to work on modifiable risk factors, if he can. Those are the ones we can change: diet, lifestyle, smoking cessation, exercise, stress reduction, etc. I usually explain to people that the family can actually come out of this healthier than they went in if they can all make changes together. His medical team will have him on aggressive cholesterol and other cardiac med management, and if he has to lose some weight, now’s a good time. If he’s diabetic, make sure his glucose levels are managed with medication, as high levels can accelerate cardiovascular disease. He might consider cardiac rehab to help him get started on the road to recovery. I hope he takes it seriously.

You need to take care of yourself too.

Please PM me if I can be of any help or support. Any time.

Thank you wonderful insight
We have already begun to eat a much healthier lifestyle. I know it’s not done overnight, but we most definitely have room for improvement. It’s not even a week, and I also feel better. We are eating better, moving more.
He is on beta blocker, cholesterol medication.
He should be getting a call next week for the cardiac rehab Center and cardiologist .
He does need to lose a few pounds, and hopefully this will become easier to do with the better eating habits, the walking we do at night. We were told in hospital he is not diabetic, that aside from this, his health is great.
He can’t drive until Oct 31, which really rattles his independence, but he understands why.

My son arrives mid day today, this will cheer him up, and hopefully make him stay home more.
Thanks again

 

[alohamom]

He can’t drive until Oct 31, which really rattles his independence,

I hear you! My 57 year old husband had a work place injury over 2 years ago and has had major reconstructive ankle surgery because of it. He had to learn how to re-walk as well as shift his mind set and couldn't drive for the whole time which was really hard for him.
One of the hardest things is he is a very stubborn man, set in his ways and a creature of habit so relearning many old ways was difficult.
The most important thing is he had to decide to do these things himself. I could tell him over and over but he needed to figure it all out to be able to accept it.

I think having your son home will be a really good thing for all of you!

 

[weewuvvdisney]

Thank you
That really pisses me off when they don’t pull over, move over, etc.

He is ok, but it’s not so easy at home. He is going into the garage. I am working from home .. having some panic attacks. He is not listening 100%. He is sitting here with pain now, so I think he’s overdone it. Can’t listen these 55 year old men. I had a serious talk with him, I am the one who is petrified it seems, the garage is not more important than his health, or my mental health

I totally get it. Sometimes I feel like I'm talking to a wall with my dear, darling, adorable husband. He can be so stubborn. One day at a time. Having your son at home for a week might help him slow down a bit. You need to take some time for yourself as well. It can be so stressful taking care of a loved one.

As for emergency vehicles, I think all emergency vehicles should be equipped with cameras and vehicles who don't pull over safely as needed, should be ticketed.

Enjoy the time you have your son home.