My Friend Put Trading Over Our Friendship.

[angelcake170]

A best friend of mine walked into one of my football rooms " Cheer_Girlie's Football Party! " and sat down. I have rules on the wall that clearly state no trading. Apparently he decided he didn't have to follow the rules and traded with someone. The rules stated if someone was caught one of the pair would be booted. I booted the guy I didn't know.Well apparently he was offering 5 * fireworks well chair and red stitch for his levitation. He said " I hat you Cheer why are you so mean? I'm never going to be your friend again! " right in front of all my guests of the room. When " he " left all my guests got very quiet. Then he walked in again and asked why I was being so mean! I felt like such a jerk in front of everyone and I told him he's not supposed to put trading over me and he replied " Just watch me cheer, I will and I am ". I'm not sure what to do but right now he doesn't really sound like a real friend to me!!

 

[cat_herder]

<hugs>

sorry for your troouble

 

[angelcake170]

Thanks Cat =)
At least dissers don't dis me...
=)
( PS I couldn't live without meh dissers. =P )

 

[Disney Dreams]

A best friend of mine...I hat you Cheer...I'm not sure what to do but right now he doesn't really sound like a real friend to me!!

Seems to me like you really don't have anything to be confused about here, sadly.

I can tell you that if any of my "friends" ever told me they hate me, they aren't a friend worth having. Sad and simple.

If the friendship is that important to you, give him a chance to explain. Then decide.

 

[lizbeth374]

He doesn't sound like much of a friend to me...maybe you are better off without him?

 

[VMKaddict]

Aww Poor Cheer. Did this happen when I left??

 

[angelcake170]

Yeses, because I was handing out a prize when we were playing trivia and " he " walked in. I told alien not to trade bc they had done it while i was giving out a prize. He did it anyway so I booted that one guy. He's one of my best friends and he always brings a smile to my face and now he's gone. I put my signature as " Taking Away The Laughter IS Like Taking Away Air.. "
It's sadly the truth. I just had a fight with best friends but were all better now. Life isn't worth living if you have no one to share a smile with.
=)

( At least I got meh dissers. )

 

[dr_zero]

Look me up when you get on

I'm always looking to make new friends and have fun and give Lizbeth374 a break from me always bugging her LOL

 

[DisPlayer]

Cheer up! There are plenty of others on VMK who can be friends, these types of situations have accured with others on the game, friends not being friends at all, when people are greedy and rude, I delete and move on, end of story! You will do whats best for you.

 

[mikeyandscoobyx2]

another great friend taught me something, they've been my friend since ive joined VMK.

Just think, If they hate you, and delete you, etc, They missed out on a great person to be friends with

Its pretty obvious about that ^ but ive never noticed.

 

[angelcake170]

I'm glad at least I have ya'll, you don't ignore me.
=)

( PS I wonder why I say ya'll i'm not from down south....Hmm )

 

[mikeyandscoobyx2]

rofl a few people ignore me.. hmm?

You just shouldn't be sad over a person like that

 

[angelcake170]

well we worked it out he said sorry... He forced me to apologize... Was it seriously meh fault??

 

[SharkMeal]

well we worked it out he said sorry... He forced me to apologize... Was it seriously meh fault??

Glad you worked it out, and no I don't think it was your fault.

 

[angelcake170]

That's good, I was hoping I wasn't being mean.
=)

 

[NedsTJ]

well we worked it out he said sorry... He forced me to apologize... Was it seriously meh fault??

"Oh no you didn't!" -snap-

Based on purely what I read in this thread, He should have been the one to appologize. ESPECIALLY since he knew the rules, and just thought he'd take advantage of your friendship to get away with it. What did you say, "I'm sorry I booted you because you broke the rules even after I reminded you not to trade."??
I don't know who he is, but to me he sounds like he's got the early makings of a control freak (without some early intervention, that is!)
Be content that you were and are (good english?) in the right the whole time.

 

[angelcake170]

"Oh no you didn't!" -snap-

Based on purely what I read in this thread, He should have been the one to appologize. ESPECIALLY since he knew the rules, and just thought he'd take advantage of your friendship to get away with it. What did you say, "I'm sorry I booted you because you broke the rules even after I reminded you not to trade."??
I don't know who he is, but to me he sounds like he's got the early makings of a control freak (without some early intervention, that is!)
Be content that you were and are (good english?) in the right the whole time.

At first he came to me and told me to apologize first, and I refused to bc he knew the rules, then he came back on and said sorry then told me to aplogize.. I'm really a push-over I get walked all over all the time. I'm OK though thank you guys for the support and helping me get back up on meh feet!!
=)=) <3

 

[smiley76]

I'm glad everything worked out but remember - you teach people how to traet you!

 

[angelcake170]

I like people to treat me equal, and not to brag on myself but I'm pretty darn nice =) I <3 my friends, it's just... Well i'll have to make a new thread, it's another story.
=)

 

[the_jedi_master]

wow...
i almost feel bad for him
but im glad it worked out