17, same as 16...its like a random filler age. the weeks before 18th birthday a little crazy, itchy, ya know? but 17 don't worry, she already adjusted to the way you feel at 16 and she won't feel any different until 18. like when you're 13 and a teenager for the first time, you'll act the same when you're 14 and 15.
BUT i will tell you, i dont know if you start to forget this when you get older, because I'm 19 now, but i look back at when i was in jr high and in early high school and remember how OLD i thought i was and now I look at kids that age and think of how YOUNG they are, so i'm wondering if parents and teens can find a grey area and see what the other sees? because it is total perception, the way you look at things. Even now, i'm totally independent, but wasnt I sure as heck felt independent at 17, it so strange! lol look at me its 530 in the morning and i feel like i'm trying to answer one of those age old questions, and discovering the difference between parents and their children for the first time! i'm crazy and need to go to bed!