We took a family trip in December ...the first in a long time with me, dh, dd-6yo and ds-2yo. Ds' birthday was during the trip and I realized all the magic that goes on around a birthday trip.
Dd's birthday is in July and we decided long ago that we won't travel during the summer due to the heat and crowds. We love early December or the fall so a family trip during dd's birthday just isn't going to happen.
Before we even left for our family trip dh and I talked about me taking dd ... just the two of us.. for a long birthday weekend this summer when she turns 7yo.
Since we just visited our "must do" list isn't as long and without her younger brother with us we can just hit what we want and relax.
We originally planned on staying at Pop but I got a pin code a few weeks ago and upgraded to the Wilderness Lodge. We are spending 3 out of 5 days at the Magic Kingdom so it just makes sense!
Dh and I have come up with a plan that each kid will go on a solo trip to WDW with a parent (probably me since I'm the WDW freak although dh may or may not want to instead) every 7 years for the birthday. I figure 7, 14 and 21 are great ages/stages to enjoy WDW...and then by the time they are 28 they can take ME!
We told dd about her trip the second day of our December trip. I wanted the trip all about her and wanted her input as to where to stay, what to do and how to spend our time. I briefly thought about surprising her but I like planning too much and she enjoyed helping w/ our family trip and wanted her to have the anticipation of this trip too!
Our plans are all set for July and it really is a dream trip for a 7yo girl... we are dining at every princess meal (including CRT the morning of her birthday), plus dinner at Chef Mickey's and breakfast at Tusker House. She's doing a pirate cruise one morning and we will be close enough to everything to hop back to WL to swim and relax whenever we want.
Dh is excited about spending some time one on one w/ ds and they are going to have a great time when we are gone. Ds goes to daycare so all dh has to do it adjust his hours to make sure he can drop off and pick up (he usually only drops off) for the few days we are away.
I am all over taking a mom and daughter trip right now and think it will be a great way for dd and I to reconnect and spend some great quality time away from the demands of her little brother (whom she adores!).
Go for it!